zoomzoom Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 So last night my roomate and I went out for ice cream, we took my new sports car that I just bought a few weeks ago. Its very sleek and sexy and my roomate is attractive to boot. As we are heading out I see someone my ex works with in the parking lot, I was sure to pull up and say "hi!" and have a short convo with them. I never once asked about my ex during the short chat, but the best thing I could think of is the word getting back to her I have a nice high dollar new sports car with an unknown girl out with me I know thinking this way is wrong, but I'm sure it will get back to her... It made me feel good! I felt great about myself, I'm not a guy with an ego but it felt great!!
jgregory4614 Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 Hahaha! Good for you Zoom! Im sure the word will get back to your ex. I love it when an unexpected plan falls in place like yours did. That one was perfect!
GLDheart Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 I'm with you. It's a nice fantasy to have your ex regret hurting you. They do say the best revenge is having a great life. While I know it's not the healthiest thoughts to have, I'll admit to wanting to "rub a little salt in" myself sometimes. However, I try to channel those feelings into positves for myself. For example, I may start by wanting to exercise and look good to make her regret what she gave up... but then I forget that and end up pushing harder to look good for "whatever comes next" ;-)
Author zoomzoom Posted September 1, 2012 Author Posted September 1, 2012 Haha! Thanks guys!! Good call for sure, I'm still hurting for sure but not showing it and being seen in a "happy positive" light to get back to her makes it worth it!!!
Author zoomzoom Posted September 2, 2012 Author Posted September 2, 2012 Thank you! It was a BU gift to myself
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