bamaguy20 Posted July 19, 2004 Posted July 19, 2004 Ive taken everyones advice here.........ive gone out, met people, hung out with my friends, talked to a lot of girls..im finally starting to feel confident about myself again...ive been getting smiles and looks from girls when im walking around, ive started to get myself out of this duldrum i was in....but really when i think about it, i get nervous, because although for a short period..like a week or two i think i like a girl, but then i realize no, i really dont...will it always be like this?? right now i cant see myself feeling the same way about another girl...i lost my one true love, and ive heard that most people dont find many people they feel that way about in life...will i ever be able to find someone else???????????? im only 20 by the way, so one would think i should be able to, but things have been rough latly.
honey2005 Posted July 19, 2004 Posted July 19, 2004 It just takes time. You won't fall madly in love with every girl you meet. Keep doing what you're doing. Go out, have fun, meet girls, and keep your heart open. But don't except for you to love someone right away. Feelings like that take time to grow. Just don't give up, you will find someone to be with.
HoldOn Posted July 19, 2004 Posted July 19, 2004 Hey man, if falling in love were too easy it wouldn't be special! You'll find the one special girl one day, whether you are looking for her or not. Just live your life! and enjoy it.
Starnette83 Posted July 19, 2004 Posted July 19, 2004 why did u guys break up? i think that if u truly loved this girl in a way u will always love her, thats if she hurt u, if she hurt u then u might have a love/hate thing that eventually will turn nutureal and u wiont feel anything for her and will find someone else who u will love more then u lvoed her..buit if u hurt her then i think u will always have her in ure heart and u might find someone else to love but if u truly loved the girl u were with i think it will be a lil more difficult... its different with every person, but goodluck and it just takes time, depending how much u consumed with this person and how this person treated u
quankanne Posted July 19, 2004 Posted July 19, 2004 just repeat to yourself what that sagacious rocker once sang: "you can't always get what you want, but if you try sometime, you just might find that you get what you need." and it's pretty much true, if you decide to open yourself up to the possibility. now, it might not be what you always defined love to be, but I guarantee, it's something you won't turn your nose up at! brief bio: in college, I was in love with Mr. Wonderful, even briefly flirted with the idea of getting pregnant. well, that relationship didn't work out and I was pretty crushed, because I had identified this guy as The One. in the meantime, I'd met this guy among a group of folks staying at a hotel I was working at, and eventually we started dating. eventually, it hit me that all that heartache I'd experienced was just a lesson of growing in the way of love, and it got me closer and closer to the man I was meant to be with, the guy I'd met while working at the hotel. we've been married 12 years now ... and I realize that I pretty much had to go through all that crap to be with the one I pretty much feel I'm supposed to spend the rest of my life with, though when I first met him I really didn't think twice about him! so don't give up on love, you just have to be willing to open yourself to it.
HoldOn Posted July 20, 2004 Posted July 20, 2004 eventually, it hit me that all that heartache I'd experienced was just a lesson of growing in the way of love, and it got me closer and closer to the man I was meant to be with, You are so right, every stupid ex that we have teaches us a lesson (Hopefully) about the person we are really supposed to be with. Besides, You are only 20. Lighten up, buddy.
Blah Toolz Posted July 20, 2004 Posted July 20, 2004 Doesn't seem like it right now... and right now, I don't even want to get as close to somebody in the way I was with my ex. Hopefully, things will be looking up in the future though. Good things come when you least expect them, IMO.
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