Omar_Bjj Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 I just wanted to get some unbiased input on a situation involving me and a friend who I have feelings for who also happens to be one of my close friends little sister. Im 29 and she is 23. Well Ive known the girl for like 15 years already. Her older brother my age Ive known since I was 13 years old and is one of my best friends. So we have known each other for a real long time everyone is really close and I consider them to be family. Well my buddies sister has always since she was really young always kinda seemed to take a liking to me always following me around when I'd go over and hangout, really nosey etc. I never really paid attention to it back then to it then because we were all so young. Well in 2003 my friend(brother of the sister) was killed in Iraq. When that happend I became closer friends with her two other brothers both who are around my age so we still saw each other a lot after all that happend. She would still do the same stuff she did when she was younger and follow me around etc. Couple more years down the line when she turned about 18 she would randomly call me and we would just talk for hours on end about anything and everything. This went on for a while for maybe a good year then we kinda fell out of contact. When she was around 20 years old she started calling me again and this time since she was older she was pretty eager to hangout so we would go out a lot. I took her to a few concerts, games, clubs etc it was good. We have a lot in common and get along perfectly so good that we've had people joke to us that they're waiting for us to get married. It was around this time when I started to get feelings for her. Ive known her for a long time and her being my friends sister she has and always will be close to me. I would do anything in a heartbeat and she knows that too. She would do the same for me as well and has on a few occasion as I have for her. But the fact she is my friends little sister Ive always been torn as to how to go about taking it to the next level with her. I know she has at least in the past had feeling for me like that too because Ive had her sister in law tell me in the past that she has confesed them to her. So a year ago I finally had enough and decided to just flat out tell her how I felt. She told me she could sense it for a long time how I felt but that she was seeing someone.(She just started dating him at the time and I NEVER ask her about the guys she dates I hate hearing about it) She told me she felt bad about letting me down because she really cares about me and that she still wants to be friends. After that we still talked for a bit then we fell out of contact. She wouldnt text me and I erased her number so I wouldnt get tempted to text her anymore. This lasted until last week when she randomly texted me. We got back into contact back to texting everyday and already have a few things planned out concerts to attend. My question is what do I do?? I cant imagine ever falling out contact with her seeing as how close we are but also being around her is really hard on me because I have really strong feelings for her. I have no problem getting girls or dates but to be perfectly honest I never have as good time with any of them as I do with my buddies sister. We are just too compatible and get along so good I dont get that with anyone else. She kinda acts like she is my girlfriend at times by asking about the girls I date and just wanting to know every detail of my life. Everyone that knows us knows we are close even her older brothers so its not like Im just an older creep trying to get close to her. Any advice for me?? Id love to take it to the next level with her but dont really know what to do. Thanks in advance.
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