22s Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 Ok, so over the past few months I have become pretty decent friends with this girl. Iv'e posted on here about it before, but I can't find the older posts. Anyway, I told her I developed feelings for her and she didn't really seem happy or upset about it. Nothing happened for about 2 weeks, but then I decided to ask her out. To my surprise she said yes and we settled on a date, but she bailed on me the day before. She said that she had a family dinner planned that night that she forgot about and then had to help her friend move (her friend moved about 3 hours away from where we are). She apolgized and I said that it was ok and that we could maybe do it some other time (nothing specific though). SHE then suggested we meet the next day and I agreed, only for her to bail on me again. This time she had gotten back from helping her friend move later than she expected. I guess my question here is should I just give up? I mean, someone who is even slightly interested in you would at least try and make the date work right? Despite how old I am, my experience with women is almost non-existent so I am not sure if she sees me as a friend and doesn't want to hurt my feelings or if these were legit excuses. Also, if you think she does see me as a friend, would it be wrong to slowly break contact with her? I like her so much and the thought of seeing her so frequently knowing that I would never have a chance with her is borderline depressing.
mortensorchid Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 There is a rule out there for those who are readers of He's Just Not That Into You (or HJNIY for short): That is, if he calls and cancels twice or more. Applies to women doing it as well. Move on.
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