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OP. Your not a bad person; yet. You clearly wanted to come on here, to talk about the direction your moral compass is turning in.... If you were totally fine with the way you were feeling, there would be no need for you to have posted:)

 

Look, when you find the right girl I think most men who are open to settling down, will be so into that girl, that they will not want other girls.

There ARE no "urges" to cheat with men who are truly in love.

Please do not let your past dictate your future. There are some truly caring, kind, and sweet girls out there, who would NEVER cheat! I am one of them. I am super loyal, and there are many out there like me.

Your always putting yourself at risk with love. Deal with it, or just stay perpetually single.

 

You have two GOOD options:

- stay single and do what you want

- or risk everything for love, the way many happy couples have done; who have also been hurt, yet find love again.

 

Please do not just date people if you can not truly be 100% into the relationship, due to your trust issues! You will not allow yourself to fully connect witht he right girl, and only lead the poor girls you date on; they will catch strong feelings over time, where as you will not be in a place to fully give yourself to them. You will break up or, by the sounds of things, enjoy the girls at a distance without getting too close, and cheat on the side.

If you cannot fully give yourself to a relationship, don't bother.You will make do with girls your not truly in love with and break their heart, or you will push away any true love you may find.

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Yes is seems that way....In all honesty at some point he will stop and he will have had his cake and eaten it

 

 

He won't stop; he is not with a girl who he truly loves and respects enough in the first place.

 

Guys who are really in love do not want to be with other girls, once they find the right girl for them.

 

He should grow some balls and break up with her, and find a girl who he loves enough to not cheat with.

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