pink umbrellas Posted August 31, 2012 Posted August 31, 2012 I am a 23 year old female engaged to a 36 year old man. Like everything else it all seemed perfect when we met, he was the charming older male and i was the young innocent female, we waited until we were engaged before having sex, it was my first time so he did everything to make it special. We have been in a long distance relationship for about a year and a half with constant trips every two months or so to visit each other. I have been in his country for three months to visit him and will be returning to my country next week. since i've been living with him it's been very frustrating at times, i make him dinner , do laundry, keep a tidy home and help out with his kids,i have realized a while now that he's had a serious "attitude" problem, he's so touchy and likes to bicker and complain alllll the time. when he returns home from work he usually eats and we would all look at tv together , he usually doesn't like to talk about his day or the events that took place within so he doesn't ask about my day either, he calls during the day for about two mins to find out how i am which is thoughtful but he is such a grumpy person. he is almost NEVER happy and if he is he doesn't stay happy for very long, it's nearly impossible for me to carry on a conversation with him without him getting pissed off and he swears when he's angry. If he's sitting down and i try to rub his shoulders he'd get angry, he likes to hug when we're sleeping but it seems as if he's selfish because he'd complain if i hug him sometimes saying "oh i'm hot " or "Can you lay still" if he's not in the mood for sex FORGET it i definitely have to wait. I get very frustrated because i do love this man and i really don't want to break up, i've spoken to him many times about his attitude but he never listens and i know that if i leave that would be the end of him because i honestly don't know what other girl would do the things i do for him, all of his friends and family think the same as well. I wish he would change!!!
USMCHokie Posted August 31, 2012 Posted August 31, 2012 When you first met, he was charming so he could sleep with you. Then whenever you visit him or he visits you, he has sex with you and then can't wait for you to leave. That's love in a nutshell.
FitChick Posted August 31, 2012 Posted August 31, 2012 Be grateful that he's showed you what he is really like before you married him. Why bother? You can do much better.
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