Loss Posted August 31, 2012 Posted August 31, 2012 Hi guys, Hope you can help me I met a great girl on one of the online dating sites. We chatted online and texted for about 2 weeks and then went out on a first date. The date went really great and we both had a great time. Two weeks later we went out again and it went ok but not great. We hugged and held hands, both of which she initiated. I took it as a good sign and asked her out again while on a date. She hesitated for a moment, but said yes. Since then I feel like she's been giving me mixed signals. I told her that I think she's great and that I'm really looking forward to meeting with her again, but she kind of ignores those sentences and seems to just be friendly. I think maybe I'm doing too much and seem clingy. We're meeting for our 3rd date tomorrow, and I'm not sure if this will be the last one. I don't know if she wants me to ask her again or if she's just being polite at this point. I felt that things were going really great but after the not-so-great second date things went really downhill and I think maybe she lost interest in me. Can you guys give me any advice?
FitChick Posted August 31, 2012 Posted August 31, 2012 We hugged and held hands, both of which she initiated. You need to be more affectionate and aggressive if you see her next time. You seem to be putting yourself in the friend zone.
heather_1 Posted August 31, 2012 Posted August 31, 2012 I think you should ask her if she is enjoying the dates and if she is interested in it going any further, don't hesitate to do so it will set your mind at ease, you never know, she may be feeling the same
Author Loss Posted August 31, 2012 Author Posted August 31, 2012 Thanks, guys! I will try to be more aggressive, and maybe initiate hand holding, kissing etc...it's a 3rd date after all I think I may be too shy to ask if her she's enjoying the dates and if she wants to take it further. After the dates I would text her or call and say that I had a good time, and she replies with the same but she might be just saying that. Hopefully something happens tomorrow and she lets me know that she likes me back and that she'd like to meet again. I think she's playing it safe, so that it's easier to friendzone me I don't think I can handle dating her and get more attached to her not knowing what she's thinking.
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