Author troubledhubby1 Posted September 13, 2012 Author Posted September 13, 2012 the help is like the paid help not me. She doesn't need me besides for my money but that's it
Sauron Posted September 13, 2012 Posted September 13, 2012 The guy said he was seperated, which means there is the possibility that it could become permanent. His wife knew he was living with someone else. How is that cheating and or making the GF the OW? It's like a default response for some of you regardless of the situation. Go ask your wife what you need to do to move back in. Women aren't that difficult to figure out especially if one has twins. I would also encourage you to do the right thing by your children and man up and take care of them, even if you don't move back in with your wife. Good luck to you.
Author troubledhubby1 Posted September 15, 2012 Author Posted September 15, 2012 just when we begin I seem to get mixed feelings....
Ladydrib Posted September 16, 2012 Posted September 16, 2012 well my wife and I have been separated since October. Since she had our twins I haven't really been able to get along with her really since she got pregnant she changed. Well we haven't divorced. Because I am never sure and she isn't either. Well in the meanwhile I've been living with this other woman I met in March. Well she was fine but she did bring out why I missed my wife then I'd try to meet up with her again we'd end up arguing. Well it eventually ended recently with my gf. She has 2 other kids and ended up pregnant again. I didn't want to talk about my marriage predicament. So I kept it from her which she soon found out and broke up with me. And terminated. Now I feel so like I miss what I had with my W but I don't know if she just completely changed if it's even possible to repair our relationship. What should I do? Advice? It will never be the same. Things have happened that changed many dynamics. That does not mean you can't love one another again. It does not mean you cannot build a new relationship. It will be different than before though. And will likely take more effort and you will likely have trust and resentment issues that may not have been there before. If you want her bad enough to accept all of that, fight for it. Make it work.
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