blue_jay_bird Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 I got a text saying "hey it "Alex" aka my ex. I was so happy, I was thinking finally, it's happening. Then i realized it was a friend of mine, named Alex. It was crushing. But made me realize I miss him soo, much i don't care if he doesn't want me if i could just see him, talk to him, it would be a dream come true. This silence NC for three mouth, is driving me CRAZY. Any Advice. ?
Author blue_jay_bird Posted August 31, 2012 Author Posted August 31, 2012 7 years, 3 Months of NC, really why haven't i heard from him?
youngnlove89 Posted August 31, 2012 Posted August 31, 2012 7 years, 3 Months of NC, really why haven't i heard from him? I'm going to pretend to be your ex, okay? *your ex* "Hey you! How have you been" *you* your heart drops, you start to shake and you feel sick, "I've been good, so nice to hear from you, how have you been?" *your ex* "Oh, I've been just great! I've been moving on and I hardly think about you anymore and I have a date this Friday night! Wish me luck!" Really? If your ex contacted you, it wouldn't be because he wants you back. Why are you so anxious to hear how well he is doing without you? think of it as a blessing that you haven't heard from him. He is giving you the tools to move on and learn to live without him. "When you continue to ignore someone, you are teaching them how to live a happy life without you."
Author blue_jay_bird Posted August 31, 2012 Author Posted August 31, 2012 Well that would make it easier for me to move on.
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