Sophie99 Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 So I met this guy at a festival last weekend through some friends. We hit it off really well and spent a lot of the weekend together, I even moved into his tent (we didn't have sex though, just kissing and such). I really liked him so I asked if he was only into me because we were at the festival, He said he really liked me, and wanted to be maybe even more than good friends after the festival ended. He was doing all the work while we were there and he said if all he wanted was sex he woudnt be trying so hard and would have moved on, but he really liked me. We swapped numbers. After the festival I didn't hear from him, after 3 days I gave in and dropped him a casual text. My number wasn't saved on his actual phone (everyone took cheap phones to the festival just in case) but we exchanged a few texts. Now I'm not sure what to do. Should I wait for him to contact now? What if he never does? Would it ce across as needy if I initiated again? How long should I wait? I'm really into him I just don't want to mess it up.
starla33 Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 i think you already showed interest by texting him. It's really up to him now sorry 1
Author Sophie99 Posted August 30, 2012 Author Posted August 30, 2012 i think you already showed interest by texting him. It's really up to him now sorry It's so infuriating! I don't want to let him slip away but at he same time I don't want to be all clingy to someone who has no interest in me
johan Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 It's so infuriating! I don't want to let him slip away but at he same time I don't want to be all clingy to someone who has no interest in me You are assuming you have some control over what happens. You don't. You expressed your interest. That's all you can do. Now you just have to be cool. 3
starla33 Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 It's so infuriating! I don't want to let him slip away but at he same time I don't want to be all clingy to someone who has no interest in me I know i'm in that spot a lot, but really not worth it. Do not go chasing after this guy, you are worth more than that.
heather_1 Posted August 31, 2012 Posted August 31, 2012 you need to leave it up to him now, maybe wait a week and if still nothing, text him one more time and after that leave it
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