AwptiK Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 Before anyone suggests NC or etc etc... I don't miss this girl to that extent. We broke up and I still wish we hadn't, but i've accepted that it's not meant to be for whatever reason. But anyway, as ****ty as this is to recall.. the ex and I broke up exactly a week ago. She immediately started talking to this guy in classes with her and liked him a lot, after just a few days. He was apparently talking to another girl at the same time, which my ex knew about, and this past Monday he told my ex that he wasn't going to stop talking to that girl. She told our mutual friend that he was right (in saying that the guy would go after the other girl). I watched my ex be all depressed and down for days afterwards. Yesterday we sort of mended our friendship, at her request, and it was the first time we'd actually talked since the breakup. Now, today...looks like that guy has come back around for whatever reason. I assume it didn't work out as planned with the first girl, so my ex is a rebound. As much as she liked him, of course she's going back. It kills me to see that and almost certainly know she's going to get herself hurt more/again. He's going to do to her a second time, what she basically did to me... in settling until a better option comes around. While I still don't understand getting dropped like I did, her friends and family included who apparently still badger her about how she shouldn't have left me...I can't not care about her general wellbeing. I guess, it's just immaturity on her part.. Leaving me, for one, (and i'm not bragging or having a huge ego over it...we were really happy and i'm the first guy who treated her insanely well). And going back to him too. Can't really deal with someone who can't figure out what they want..
Zahara Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 Only reason she mended the friendship was because she needed a fallback guy. Stop worrying about her potential hurt. That's her problem. You begin your healing and take care of your own hurts. You may not miss the girl as much but if it affects you in any way, then time to cut contact. 3
Author AwptiK Posted August 30, 2012 Author Posted August 30, 2012 (edited) Hmm well that makes sense, thank you! Now I just have to deal with the lingering pain and memories.. Edited August 30, 2012 by AwptiK
Zahara Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 Now I just have to deal with the lingering pain and memories.. We all have dealt with those bad feelings. Just have to be strong, take one day at a time, and keep going forward. You will get there.
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