Mariana345 Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 I was doing great!! I'm at 3 months mark and I already have my life back. I still had feelings and sometimes wanted him back, but it was less and less. Today I logged in facebook to talk to a friend and find a message from someone unknown that also tried to add me. The message said: "What does it feel that he left you for another woman?" I think is his crazy ex girlfriend, when we were together she kept bothering me with things that he was cheating on me and stuff like that, that lead to big fights. I was doing great! I have no news from him since 2 months or so and I'm planning study abroad. With this... at least I can say that he is with someone else... It is really awfull to confirm that he left me for someone else. One good thing come out. I can let that hope and lingering feelings for him to go. But I have to say that it hit me really hard to know the real him... I hate him, I just want to forget everything about him...I feel so betrayed and mad... I want revenge!!!
Crila16 Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 Someone who's jealous of you and threatened by you sent that note. It was meant to hurt you. Don't play into it. You don't know if it's true or not...and in this case, ignorance is bliss since you're doing so well. It's in the past. Finding out if he did or didn't will only cause pain that is absolutely unecessary at this point. You're not going to benefit from it. Whether it was another woman or not, it's still over. Let it go. Don't respond this his ex (who I think it is too)...or it could be the new girlfriend who knows your ex may have lingering feelings towards you. Either way...don't play the game. You have no time for this BS.
KatZee Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 I was doing great!! I'm at 3 months mark and I already have my life back. I still had feelings and sometimes wanted him back, but it was less and less. Today I logged in facebook to talk to a friend and find a message from someone unknown that also tried to add me. The message said: "What does it feel that he left you for another woman?" I think is his crazy ex girlfriend, when we were together she kept bothering me with things that he was cheating on me and stuff like that, that lead to big fights. I was doing great! I have no news from him since 2 months or so and I'm planning study abroad. With this... at least I can say that he is with someone else... It is really awfull to confirm that he left me for someone else. One good thing come out. I can let that hope and lingering feelings for him to go. But I have to say that it hit me really hard to know the real him... I hate him, I just want to forget everything about him...I feel so betrayed and mad... I want revenge!!! Don't go down to his level. Just remember this... "If it can happen with you, it can happen to you." He may have left you for someone else, but that's his MO. When he's bored of her, he'll leave her for someone else too.
Author Mariana345 Posted August 30, 2012 Author Posted August 30, 2012 Yes thank you!!!! I'm not going to let him, or her or anyone think that he can hurt me anymore... I'm actually having a good time without him but I'm really mad... but yes, not let them know it and actually... not letting them to annoy me anymore... So mad.... so mad...
Author Mariana345 Posted August 31, 2012 Author Posted August 31, 2012 Waaaaa... actually I think this is my closure... now I can't see us getting back... I think I can finally move on... a little sad, but I have a bright future in front of me, so I have to go for it... Too bad that things endende like this... sigh
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