mike5770 Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 I reconnected with a woman I knew in high school earlier this year. Visited her in her town in NC we kissed and started talking on phone (I am in PA and read earlier posts) I was to visit her in March in NC but she texted the last minute and said don't come down she is afraid of her ex husband. She has 3 kids and constantlu battles him in court. Should have kept No contact but I was weak and we started talking again in summer time. I was going to Las Vegas and she asked if she could fly out and hang out with me. I said and I had the time of my life...we did everything lovers did and she made me feel like a billion dollars. We parted at the airport she was crying and said she loved me and wanted to be with me. I surprisingly felt ok leaving her and not sad when I got on the plane. I told her lets keep in touch and see what happens maybe plan another trip together in the future. Well my sister predicted what would happen..about a month later she tells me we are just friends and "untags me" on her Facebook of pictures of us together. I finally made the decision I have to move on from this woman forever and blocked her from my facebook yesterday. There of course is the side of me that says I made a mistake and to unblock her but I am not going to do that. Everytime I try to make it work with this woman I always end up getting stung. I wish her well and will always remember the great time I had with her.
exit82 Posted August 31, 2012 Posted August 31, 2012 so are you saying your "tough decision" was to block her from your Facebook? what is the world coming too?
RachaelSwerk Posted August 31, 2012 Posted August 31, 2012 It sounds like she is pretty confused about what she wants out of her life right now. Being divorced and with children must be a big burden to carry, so who knows what is going thru her mind. That doesn't make the pain any less, but it certainly isn't your fault! 1
JD1977 Posted August 31, 2012 Posted August 31, 2012 It sounds like you made the right decision. Life is too short to be with someone who is great/fun loving one minute and unavailable the next. She maybe in the middle of a personal storm or she maybe a little immature. Unfortunately not everyone who grows older gets more mature. Besides if FB pics are a problem, it's a good sign she is seeing someone else. Focus on meeting someone locally to have fun with! 1
Author mike5770 Posted September 2, 2012 Author Posted September 2, 2012 Yes blocking her was a tough decision for me because I really cared for her and wanted to keep dating her. I am glad getting rid of someone you care about is easy for you. I miss our Saturday night phone call which would be going on right now bbut I am staying strong.
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