easyy Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 So I've been with this guy for 3 months only (We meet 3 months ago as well) and 2 days ago he dumped and didn't really give me a proper reason. He has said though that he doesn't love me. We were in a long distance relationship for a month now he's moved to different country to work for 2 months contract... Through our 3 months relationship we only saw each other for about month as I was on my holiday in July, and we meet at the end of June. So I don't think there was even a time to fall in love with each other to be honest. He said he still really likes me thinks I'm beautiful and a great person and he loves to spend his time with me but he doesn't miss me when he's there ''so there must be something about this'' But the thing is I don't miss him a lot as well but I do really like him and I would never even think about breaking up with him I like him too much. I know he probably wants to have fun with other girls there and just doesn't want to cheat on me, but he's coming back at the end of September and obviously he won't get to do that over here. I don't know what to do right now, I haven't messaged or called him or anything. I have been going out and he can probably see it because of facebook. Also my ex boyfriend that he was a bit jealous of started talking to me and he knows about it.. Can it be a turn off for him or will he realise what he lost? I'm meeting him next wednesday and I don't know how I should act around him?
justwhoiam Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 He doesnt love you, he's not in love with you. You don't love him and you're not in love with him. What's the problem? You can't be someone's girlfriend just because you like him. Move on.
TMichaels Posted August 31, 2012 Posted August 31, 2012 I have been going out and he can probably see it because of facebook. Also my ex boyfriend that he was a bit jealous of started talking to me and he knows about it.. Can it be a turn off for him or will he realise what he lost? If you're asking whether or not playing a game to try to make him jealous or change his mind will work, I think you're barking up the wrong tree. He's made himself clear -- he broke things off with you because he doesn't love you. Get on with your life and quite trying to scheme your way back into his. He may come to his senses, he may not. But if he does, at least you will know in your heart he came back of his own volition -- not because you laid a trap to snare him and lure himback. I'm meeting him next wednesday and I don't know how I should act around him?Quite frankly, I don't know what you're bothering to meet up with him. If I were you I'd tell him: "You know, I do understand English. You said you didn't love me and wanted to break up. You have no reason to lie to me therefore, I took what you said is the truth. "So I don't see the point of the two of us meeting up. I have a lot to offer and I want to spend my time with someone who appreciates that I do. I wish you well with your new job and all the best to you." Best, TMichaels 1
january2011 Posted August 31, 2012 Posted August 31, 2012 I'm in complete agreement with both the previous posters, including not meeting up with him and not playing games to make him want you again. Most likely, he's probably too busy in his new life to look back at his old one. If there was enough there, he'd want to carry on. As hurtful as it is, I think that you need to accept that it didn't work out. I'm sorry.
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