lovehurts5 Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 Lately I've been thinking about how there's no real guarantee that I will find the right person and live a happy life with them. Something I have always just expected is to fall in love and have a family one day but who's to say that will happen? I feel like ill never have a connection with someone the way I did with my ex and, although it wasn't the best relationship, what if that was really my only shot to what I really want in life? I'm 24 and people always tell me oh youre so young, you need to find yourself! I feel that I already know myself though and I really don't think 24 is all that young. It's going to take me a while to be ready for a new relationship and by the time that happens who's to say my next real relationship will be the one and not fall apart like the last one? Feeling discouraged and don't want to just settle and let my life pass without living happily...
Sav Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 I think you're rushing it. :\ take the time to slowly enjoy being single. That's what my cousin told me. She told me you gotta enjoy being single and being alone before you can get into a relationship. Don't rush the process, enjoy the chase, enjoy everything before finally settling down .
Author lovehurts5 Posted August 30, 2012 Author Posted August 30, 2012 Yeah I def. Dont want to rush into a relationship. I'm nowhere near ready to be in one. But im just nervous when the time does come for me to be in one that it wont work again and then ill be getting older and farther and farther away from being able to jave a family and all that.
fray5 Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 Yeah I def. Dont want to rush into a relationship. I'm nowhere near ready to be in one. But im just nervous when the time does come for me to be in one that it wont work again and then ill be getting older and farther and farther away from being able to jave a family and all that. Buddy, I'm right there with ya and understand what you're saying. I think this is a normal thought to have especially when we are looking for that one to start a family with. I'm 25, a year older than you, and I just got out of a relationship with a girl who pretty much stomped on my heart. I thought I connected with her, and with all that's happened I worry about finding someone I'll like as much to have a family with. What we gotta do is just have faith that the girl is out there for us. We need to focus on ourselves and getting better as a person. You sound like a good guy, and I'm sure when you are ready for a relationship, you're going to make some lady very happy. Hang in there and feel free to PM me if you ever need someone to talk to.
Sav Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 You can't be afraid. Being afraid is already losing half the battle. Keep your chin up and smile at all the endless possibilities that you have in front of you!
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