Lovesickbro Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 (edited) Me and ex gf broke up about 2 months ago, and been on good terms. Today we had to work together, and after we finished work, I got me and her to sit inside my car so we can talk. We talked for about 2 hours, and the first 1.5 hrs was really good, lot of laughter, joking and chatting. She also told me how happy she was out clubbing with her friends last friday night. During the period she asked several times if I was "alright (as in if I was over the whole breakup thing and not hurting over her anymore)" coz she said during the last hour of work I looked sad / unhappy. I didn't really answer directly. Near the end of the talk, when she was about to leave, she rubbed my leg and asked me again if I was alright, I said "yeah I sort of am and isn't" and then she said "you'll be alright soon". Then I said "yeah, I will be, just like you are alright now." And then she started getting abit angry and frustrated, saying "just coz I told u I had a really good time with my friends last fri night, you say I'm alright? you don't know everything you know...you shouldn't assume... etc." And then I grabbed her and hugged her and she hugged back and there was alot of hand holding and she put her head on my shoulders/chest and I stroked her hair for a while. This went on for about 10 minutes inside the backseat of the car. We talked abit while hugging but was mostly stuck on the topic of "her being alright", she refused to go into clear detail but she continued to look sad / frustrated that I thought she was over me. After she got out of my car, she circled around to hug me actively, and I asked her if she would go park walking with me in the near future, she said "maybe". Then we parted. I am COMPLETELY confused as to why she would get pissed at me thinking that she's "alright" / overly me already, when she wants me to get over her. Edited August 30, 2012 by Lovesickbro
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