vanek26 Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 Hey guys. Like all of you, I've dealt with the annoyances of OLD websites. I think that the biggest problem with it is that an attractive girl will get absolutely showered with attention from a boatload of guys. And it stands to reason that at least some of those guys will be more attractive than you or me. So when you look at it that way, your chances of a girl 'settling' for you seems slim to none. I think it's far more rewarding for girls to just get the attention rush of reading through their emails and stringing guys along. I like the idea of online dating because it grants you access to tons of women who you probably wouldn't otherwise ever meet. But I think you need to eliminate all of that competition to have a better chance. About a year ago I started trying to find girls through Facebook. I would use the 'poke' button on a random girl in my area and if she poked back I would say something along the lines of, "sorry for the creepiness, I just saw you under 'people you may know' and thought you were pretty cute :p" That strategy did in fact get me laid several times. But it wasn't without its pitfalls. Even though I didn't really have any competition with these girls, I did sometimes come off as very creepy and really put off a lot of women. You need thick skin to pull that off. So now I think I may have thought of a new way. I'm taking two online courses at the University I attend and I noticed that there is a section where you can view the course roster. So, in my boredom, I looked up all of the females from both rosters on Facebook and made a note of the girls I found attractive. In total, I have 18 names. Now, I'm trying to think of the best way to approach this. I could send them an email through the classroom website asking if they have purchased the book yet or something like that and take the conversation from there. That seems pretty harmless, I occasionally get emails of that nature too. The only problem is, that would be very easy to ignore. I could add them on Facebook and act as if I have no idea we're in a class together and then when it comes out we will have an excuse to meet up. This might seem kind of sketchy though and girls may be wise to this (what are the chances I randomly add someone and we turn out to have a class together?) Or I could just be honest and send them a message on FB saying I looked them up and thought they were cute. This of course has high creep potential. What do you guys think? Am I on to something here? I'd like to think that out of these 18 I should at least be able to con one of them into meeting me !
Imajerk17 Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 What happened to that great girl you've been seeing?
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