OCCDAVE Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 Well last time I've seen my ex of 2 years was in December which ended very ugly.She admit to sleeping with another man and dumped me .well looking back I've had a lot of time to reflect and understand everything .Tbh I wasn't the best bf to her I'd talk down to her I never once hot her but the emotional abuse was there.i never cheat on her but I'd break up with her it seemed weekly .To be it short I'm man enough to admit I failed in this rs I think I lead her to cheat.well yesterday I get a call from her which I wasn't sure so I called back private didn't say anything and it was Infact her.ive since dated around and may have a girl im interested but can't lift this guilt I have . Last time she called 6 months ago I Ed and she told me where to go big time.this could have been a mistaken dial since no voicemail or text was left . Guess what I'm trying to say would it be a mistake to call her.guess I just wanted to tell her I'm sorry I took her for granted and get closure ?
winstonsdreams Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 I think you should definitely call her to see what she wants. Apologise if you need to but she still cheated on you. I always think closure is a good thing, if you are both completely over the relationship maybe you can now talk as friends. Call her, good luck!
Phanpooh Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 U don't need to call her! If u feel guilty, let her alone, time will heal her. If u feel needy, believe me, cuz u broke up with her, u r the only person couldn't make her feel better in this world
Med Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 You will regret calling her, she was possibly fishing to see if she has power over you still. 1
BooBoo1982 Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 U don't need to call her! If u feel guilty, let her alone, time will heal her. If u feel needy, believe me, cuz u broke up with her, u r the only person couldn't make her feel better in this world She broke up with him.
Author OCCDAVE Posted August 30, 2012 Author Posted August 30, 2012 You will regret calling her, she was possibly fishing to see if she has power over you still.Might be tbh every time she did random dial which in the 6 months prior has been bout 3 times and all 3 times she's done this Her. Look why the f would you call me don't you understand I'm over you and have a life of my own . Not gonna lie tempted to call maybe 6 months has changed her mind I dunno .guess in a way I am over her do I miss her def you don't just forget someone like that
Phanpooh Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 [QUOTaE=BooBoo1982;4226516]She broke up with him. he thought she broke up with cuz of his actions, and he blamed himself. Believe me, there aren't always dumper, dumpee.
Author OCCDAVE Posted August 31, 2012 Author Posted August 31, 2012 Could use few more insights on this :-/
GLDheart Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 Just let it alone. If she REALLY has something to say she will do more than "pocket dial" you.
Buttercup84 Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 I would not bother . From my experience , she is just doing it because she needs the ego boost and since she has not heard from you she is worried you are over her. You do not cheat on someone that you love.
Author OCCDAVE Posted September 3, 2012 Author Posted September 3, 2012 Well today marks 9 months ugh Smh I've come a long way but sucks it had to come to this sigh do tempted to call but like you said she needs to do more then pocket dial
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