mandybell79 Posted July 19, 2004 Share Posted July 19, 2004 I have been seeing a guy for about four months. We got pretty serious really fast. I had to move away (about six hours), so we decided to do the whole long distance relationship. He tells me that he loves me, and that he wants to marry me. There is one certain reason why he broke my trust, but I have forgiven him for that. I basically need advice on if long distance relationships really work. I want to trust him, but can you trust a guy in college, with his girlfriend six hours away?? Guys, what are the true signs that he is cheating on me???? And, what are the signs that he says what he means?? Please help!!! Link to post Share on other sites
morrigan Posted July 19, 2004 Share Posted July 19, 2004 If you feel comfortable posting it, what is the certain reason you felt you couldn't trust your bf? If you believe there is a possibility that the previous incident could occur again, the chances of your relationship working are rather slim. I think some ldr can work, as long as there is a lot of communication, and the two try to see eachother as much as possible and be a part of the other person's life. College is a time when people grow up and change their priorities and attitudes. Breaking plans/continuous disappearing acts/distant behavior are all potential signs of cheating or a lessening interest in the relationship. However, snooping or spying on your boyfriend's every move won't help anything. He may or may not be cheating, but it seems like you feel that there's a lot of distance between you two emotionally. If you believe that you can't trust him, or you feel that certain actions of his are suspicious, it's probably best to end the relationship. Four months is rather quick for anyone to be discussing marriage. You're young and there is plenty of time to get involved in a good relationship. You may stay with this guy, or you two may grow away from eachother. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mandybell79 Posted July 19, 2004 Author Share Posted July 19, 2004 I totally agree with what you are saying. I guess I just want to hold on to this guy, because he makes me feel so different than ever before. You're right, when people are in college they grow up, and sometimes can grow apart. He graduates soon, and he might move to Tennesse with me. (or atleast that's what he says). I can honestly tell you that in my heart, I feel like he might not be faithful. It's just really hard to end things. Ya know? Link to post Share on other sites
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