Sugarkane Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 It is really difficult not to seek out revenge especially when these heartless Aholes more than deserve it.
RedRobin Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 It is really difficult not to seek out revenge especially when these heartless Aholes more than deserve it. Time spent getting even or thinking about getting even is better spent learning how to avoid them and what things they are doing that seem initially appealing.
spiderowl Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 I know it's really annoying that they leave before you have chance to realise what despicable people they are. Are you on Facebook? Is he on Facebook too? If so, you could change your status to being 'in a relationship' and produce a fake photo of said 'beloved'. Let him think he's been replaced quickly (so isn't such a stud) and ignore all his messages in whatever format. Of course, you could 'accidentally' send him a text intended for your new lover (make up a name for the new one) which just happens to mention how convenient it was that your ex disappeared just when you were about to dump him.
utterer of lies Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 Are you on Facebook? Is he on Facebook too? If so, you could change your status to being 'in a relationship' and produce a fake photo of said 'beloved'. Let him think he's been replaced quickly (so isn't such a stud) and ignore all his messages in whatever format. Of course, you could 'accidentally' send him a text intended for your new lover (make up a name for the new one) which just happens to mention how convenient it was that your ex disappeared just when you were about to dump him. This is bad advice. Anything she does that consists of her giving him attention makes her weaker. Like he won't see through the 'oh i accidentally'. And faking a relationship on facebook for him? How desperate is that... The best she can do is forgive and forget him. No need to waste any more emotions on him... 1
jcrew11 Posted September 3, 2012 Posted September 3, 2012 The BIGGEST RED FLAG is that you live 3 Hours apart. He may work in your town for a consulting job that will last 6 months, and then he is gone. He's handsome and rich, and he wants to play around. There's a reason Long Distance Relationships never work, and its because one person always cheats. Its just too easy for the guy to play in the playground when he knows he is leaving soon, and none of the girls become aware of his player reputation. 1
nekoxchaos Posted September 3, 2012 Posted September 3, 2012 whoa man maybe its a sign that you really need to avoid this guy, I call it devine intervention. I feel like you should cut him off with no explanations since he had the audacity to plan a date while you were out of town. Silence is deadly
jcrew11 Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 just tell him you missed your period and think you are pregnant. That will scare him straight.
Lamplight Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 Sorry this happened. Definately have your girlfriend setup a date for you. Go meet him and get even. You might even get an apology. And always remember that when you setup an online account, that the ones who contact you right off the bat are users and players. They are trying to get their dibs in before you have a chance to figure out how online dating works. Good Luck!
travelbug1996 Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 look for your own errors in judgment. screw him. 1
Author xra Posted September 6, 2012 Author Posted September 6, 2012 Thanks so much for the advice, everyone. Looking back, I realized that I really should have seen it coming - what really hurt and stung was my initial shock of realizing who he really was...But once I got over that, I think it's almost funny now He pretty much stopped contacting me for a few days. But then my friend on the OLD site blew off their 'date' and pretty much told him 'thanks but no thanks'... and 15 minutes later he hits me up again. Pathetic much?? LOL. I've pretty much NC him since, though today he suddenly texted me again, asking if he kicked my cat or something... He clearly doesn't handle rejection well, so this must be a brand new experience for him after the hordes of girls he has constantly texting and calling him after he dumped them. In fact, I'm considering playing his own game for a bit, and stringing him along for fun for a while before leaving on my own terms. Bitchy? Definitely. But now that I know what kind of guy this is and what makes him tick, it's very hard to resist the temptation.... Live and learn
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