youngskywalker Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 My g/f asked me to share some of my fantasies with her. I told her a few like like where I'd like to live, money, maybe a vacation ect ect. Of course I told her some of my sexual fantasies too. We've talked about it many times before so no surprise to me but she says she never fantasizes about sex. "I just don't think about those things" she said. Her fantasies about me are things like me being there when she gets home or a date that we might go on as we walk along the beach. O.K. I know men think about sex more than women but it seems really abnormal to me that she "never" thinks about sex. So question to the ladies in here; Do you fantasize about sex and how often? Is it only during masturbation or is it randomly throughout the day? My girl also says she never masturbates either. I find that a little odd.
MrCastle Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 My girl also says she never masturbates either. I find that a little odd. I call bs on that. Smell her fingers if your suspicious
january2011 Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 I think about sex whenever I think about my SO, which at the moment, is pretty often. My girl also says she never masturbates either. I find that a little odd. ^^ Here's your answer. She doesn't sound very sexual and seems more focused on the romance aspects of the relationship. Has she had sex yet?
Author youngskywalker Posted August 30, 2012 Author Posted August 30, 2012 She doesn't sound very sexual and seems more focused on the romance aspects of the relationship. Has she had sex yet? When we are together we have sex often and it's good. Except for the fact that she doesn't enjoy oral I have no complaints about our sex life.
january2011 Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 When we are together we have sex often and it's good. Except for the fact that she doesn't enjoy oral I have no complaints about our sex life. If partnered sex isn't an issue, I wouldn't worry too much about her individual sexual predilections or lack thereof.
bac Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 So question to the ladies in here; Do you fantasize about sex and how often? Is it only during masturbation or is it randomly throughout the day? My girl also says she never masturbates either. I find that a little odd. IMO It is normal for a nice young girl who wants to get married, have kids and live with the only man all her life. The girls do not masturbate or begin m....ing later in life. They have mostly romantic sexual fantasies about love, feelings, cuddling and making out as expression of emotional intimacy. They have the fantasies every day. Girls are different. There are other young girls who are very similar to men. They do m.....te as men do and they have the same type of sexual fantasies and the same sexual behavior. Most of them want to get married and have kids too but living with the only man all her life is kind of problem for them because of their sex drive.
CarrieT Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 We've talked about it many times before so no surprise to me but she says she never fantasizes about sex. "I just don't think about those things" she said. Her fantasies about me are things like me being there when she gets home or a date that we might go on as we walk along the beach. O.K. I know men think about sex more than women but it seems really abnormal to me that she "never" thinks about sex. It surprised me too when I read this, but I've googled around and found some statistics... [FONT=Century Gothic, Arial, Helvetica]" [/FONT]Statistics show that over 90% of males masturbate by the age of 18, but the figure is far lower in young women, being perhaps 35 or 40%, although it continues to rise with increasing age until a woman is in her 60”s, by which time probably 80% or more women do masturbate, at least occasionally. [FONT=Century Gothic, Arial, Helvetica]"[/FONT] So question to the ladies in here; Do you fantasize about sex and how often? Is it only during masturbation or is it randomly throughout the day? I can remember starting to fantasize and masturbate at a VERY young age (4 or 5, if not younger). I fantasize about sex numerous times a day, randomly. My girl also says she never masturbates either. I find that a little odd. This surprised me too... And it would be a red flag for me. How long have you two been together? I would anticipate her being one of those girls whose sexuality shuts down later in a relationship.
todreaminblue Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 My g/f asked me to share some of my fantasies with her. I told her a few like like where I'd like to live, money, maybe a vacation ect ect. Of course I told her some of my sexual fantasies too. We've talked about it many times before so no surprise to me but she says she never fantasizes about sex. "I just don't think about those things" she said. Her fantasies about me are things like me being there when she gets home or a date that we might go on as we walk along the beach. O.K. I know men think about sex more than women but it seems really abnormal to me that she "never" thinks about sex. So question to the ladies in here; Do you fantasize about sex and how often? Is it only during masturbation or is it randomly throughout the day? My girl also says she never masturbates either. I find that a little odd. your girlfriend is in love with you it is not unusual to lose the urge to masturbate when you are in love with someone you are saving those encounters and energy to spend with the intended person.......or parnter....lol...not telling you why i am laughing now thats my secret.....as far as fantasies go i find it hard to share my fantasies they are not something i share easily and they are not severe or extreme.....they are for one set of ears only someone i implicitly trust.......havent actually fulfilled any of them dont expect too its not important to me i tmay be to someone in the future to want to know and i will know if i can share that or not...depends on the person..deb
KungFuJoe Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 IMO It is normal for a nice young girl who wants to get married, have kids and live with the only man all her life. The girls do not masturbate or begin m....ing later in life. They have mostly romantic sexual fantasies about love, feelings, cuddling and making out as expression of emotional intimacy. They have the fantasies every day. Girls are different. There are other young girls who are very similar to men. They do m.....te as men do and they have the same type of sexual fantasies and the same sexual behavior. Most of them want to get married and have kids too but living with the only man all her life is kind of problem for them because of their sex drive. LOL are you for real?
irin Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 i used fantasize about falling in love and getting married, that was the closest to sex it ever got, now i fantasize about winning a Nobel prize for physics and i have to say this one is far more realistic.
KungFuJoe Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 It's not uncommon to not think about sex all the time if you're getting it in a serious relationship. You are always satisfied...so less reason to fantasize about it.
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