krystle1 Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 So I was with this guy he was my first. then he slept with a friend of mine we weren't dating so it was whatever. I still was kinda upset. He's always been a good friend I never really did the dating/relationship thing with anyone. A couple years later I went to his sisters wedding with him which was great we went as friends. Then we didn't talk for a while. Mostly cause he didn't know what he wanted. March of last year he was back and said he knew what he wanted. He wanted me and a relationship. I was excited. But at the same time I was scared it was just a line. We were going out he went to everything with me. I didn't go to anything with him. Which is wrong I know then this past june/july I was going through some stuff and I didn't know what I wanted I told him and he wanted to be together he wanted to work on things he said he wanted me. I said I wanted to work on things too. After that I started working alot more and we didn't talk or hang out alot. Now a a few weeks a go I realized I was/am in love with him and I was trying to tell him and told him I needed to talk to him and a week later he tells me he needs to talk and tells me he doesn't feel the same as he did. I basically poord my heart out and told him im sorry I took so long but I was scared and I do love you but he keep saying he's not at that point. I want him back so bad it hurts and I know it would've been the best relationship. I just don't know what to do. He said he still wants to be friends and talk every day I told hime maybe we shouldn't. I want him to want me back what can I do. Or is there no hope
Berrie26 Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 This sounds like classic cat and mouse to me. If I were you, I would just cut off contact for now and do your own thing. Once he sees that you're happy without him he'll come back strong. They always do! Goodluck!
Author krystle1 Posted August 30, 2012 Author Posted August 30, 2012 How long should I not talk to him. We wont see or run in to each other. So how do would I know?
madjac74 Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 So I was with this guy he was my first. then he slept with a friend of mine we weren't dating so it was whatever. I am so terrified to know how old you are
Author krystle1 Posted August 30, 2012 Author Posted August 30, 2012 Haha don't worry im old enough. Im 25 I just had to grow up a little fast and missed out on alot now I feel like im a young kid cause I have no idea what im in for.
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