M30USA Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 (edited) My mother in law testified against me in court, saying that I was a "disconnected dad", even though I changed diapers routinely, went everywhere with my family when I wasn't working, and routinely tucked the kids in. I'm not sure I will ever forgive her for this. It's clear that her intention was to win custody of my sons for herself and her daughter (at the expense of their own father). Edited August 29, 2012 by M30USA
Greznog Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 Most women will testify that you are a sadistic serial killer if they think it'll help them/their sister/mother/daughter get custody of the children. 1
quankanne Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 have they assigned a social worker to do a home study to see the family dynamic? I'm sure the court will put more faith in a professional than a family member who very well would say disparaging things out of loyalty!
Author M30USA Posted August 30, 2012 Author Posted August 30, 2012 have they assigned a social worker to do a home study to see the family dynamic? I'm sure the court will put more faith in a professional than a family member who very well would say disparaging things out of loyalty! My wife and her lawyer petitioned to have a social study and all sorts of crap. The judge didn't grant their request--at least for the temporary orders. My lawyer said he was pretty confident the judge saw through their distortion campaign.
carhill Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 Has your attorney indicated whether the court record in this matter is open to the public? Jurisdictions vary. Sometimes the best defense is an aggressive offense. I wouldn't presume to guess what a judge will or will not see or do. Stuff goes through their clerks who can influence them. Given the circumstances, I would have considered joining the motion for a neutral third party assessment. In any event, sitting back, even if there is irrefutable evidence that one is 'right', one can get steam-rollered. Time for a change-up, IMO, if that description is in any way accurate. Good luck.
Mme. Chaucer Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 I would think that having a social worker assess the situation would be beneficial to you. What is the custodial situation right now? Are both you and your ex wife fighting for full custody? Is shared custody acceptable to you? Is there any chance to work out a custody plan through mediation?
Kelemvor Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 Sheesh, M30, this divorce sounds terrible. I feel for you.
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