Inflikted Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 This seems like a really silly and immature question, because it basically boils down to "How do you know if a girl 'likes' you?". Thing is, I'm 23, almost 24, and I have zero experience with dating, flirting, etc. There's a girl I like, and I chickened out from asking her out, this past weekend, but I plan to do it next time I see her. But, that might be a little while, depending on how things go. I know overanalyzing is bad, but in the mean time, I find myself trying to figure out if she might be interested before I ask her out. I feel like I'm getting a vibe from her that I don't usually get from girls. Maybe I'm wrong, maybe I'm just getting my hopes up, but I dunno. Then there's the little things. We joke around and laugh a lot; a while back, she had told me "You're kinda funny, you should talk more" (I tend to be a quiet, reserved kinda guy). A couple weeks ago when we were joking around a lot, she said "Aw, you're talking to me" in a cute kind of way. This past weekend, I was kinda making conversation with her about what she was doing on the weekend, and when she asked me the same thing, my answer was kind of dorky; what I found peculiar was that, 5-10 minutes later, she brought up what I said again and asked me stuff about it. I suppose she could've just been bored and/ or trying to make conversation. Just seemed a bit peculiar to me. So, I dunno, what do you think? For what it's worth, she's not the typical "cutesy" "twirls her hair" kind of girl; we're both sarcastic, snarky individuals, and I have sort of a hard time reading her. Like I said, I know overanalyzing is bad, and all that, but while I'm waiting to see her again, I can't help but wonder about it in the mean time.
Hawaii50 Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 Ask her... otherwise buy the next issue of maxim you see with whatever # of ways to tell if she's into you. google works, too. there are a bazillion little things humans do unconsciously through body language that are screaming tells that a woman is interested.
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