smint Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 My ex left me for another girl,but never admitted me,treated me like dirt,after 7yrs of RS(my first everything),I am 26,he is 28,and she is also 28... He was sending me some signals to lower myself more and more,he was giving me some hope,I almost finished at therapist,when 2 months ago I decided strict NC,it has been 5,5 months ago since he left me(he left me on 12th March),and I heard that he already lives with her and her child who is 5,her husband died in accident in less then 6 months,and they are already living for 2 months together!!! We needed 1 whole year just to first kiss...anyway today I went to friend who had similar experience,and later she asked me for his name to see how he looks like on Facebook(I blocked him on my profile),and there was what to see...him with the T-shirt I BOUGHT TO HIM,and tat new bitch!!!I can't believe anymore how he is evil,is there ed of his evil behavior,he knew that I would see it,he has never put our together's picture on FB!!! Yesterday I had my thesis on faculty,and instead of being happy(ok I was happy),but I was missing him,I told everybody how I wish he is with me now...and later I cried again home because he wasn't with me...And e also deleted my youtube videos he recorded me when I was singing in school...I am devastating!!!
stillafool Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 I'm sorry you are hurting. It is best that he is out of your life considering how he treated you. 7 years is a long time to waste on a bad boyfriend. Don't waste another minute, get out there and live your life.
Coyoteloco Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 some people just cant love you back, its like they never loved you and in one day they forget about you and put your love in the garbage. My fisrt love broke up with me 1 month ago,so in some level i understand what ur going through and it sucks cause im going through the same right now. I think they wont last together that much because of the fact her husband died 6 months ago :S thats just ****ed up, she is just using him from my point of view. But i dont have that much experience either! i just wish one day they will regret loosing some1 that loved them so much and that would do anything for them. I dont know how will i cope when my ex haves another man.
lovehurts5 Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 I understand how you feel. Sometimes its hard to go through happy things in your life that they would have been there to support. If he is willing to move on so easily after 7 years you have to use that negativity to push yourself forward to also move on. Clearly he's not worth your time. Something that helps me when i'm feeling upset is to remind yourself that they are missing from your life and that really hurts BUT you are also missing from their life and that is even worse, despite if they look like they've moved on or are happy. Keep your head up and keep moving forward.
Author smint Posted August 29, 2012 Author Posted August 29, 2012 But WHY is he enjoying that much to hurt me??? He left me for another,I was begging and crying,I was destroying myself,I was crying 3 months like crazy,skin on my face was destroyed of tears!!! I had to block him and ignore him,I just couldn't psychic handle that anymore...I was learning opera singing,I had videos on youtube,he was recording me and putting it there,people used to like it,why he erased them??? Why is he avenging to me,I haven't done ANYTHING!!!Why that cruel behavior!!!Why I deserved that all???
lovehurts5 Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 My ex of 4 years move on 3 weeks after our relationship. There's no real answer as to why they do what they do. My ex kissed this girl in front of me and the week later was going up to MY friends and introducing her as "his girl". Sometimes people are just cruel and it makes them feel better about themselves to put other people down for no good reason. I have been NC with my ex for 3 months today. I still think about him everyday and I am still hurting. But you just have to remind yourself you're a good person and they screwed up. We just have to hope one day they realize their mistake. 1
Author smint Posted August 29, 2012 Author Posted August 29, 2012 How cruel is that!!! Isn't it enough what they did to us,why humiliating smeone more and more,I don't know do they even realize how that hurts!!!
mistermr Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 My ex kissed this girl in front of me and the week later was going up to MY friends and introducing her as "his girl". What a cunt. You can do so so so so so so so so so so so so so much better than a scum bag like that. ****, I just want to hug you. ****, if I (a strange internet man) wants to hug you there are tons of other guys IRL that will want to hug you as well... haha I'm not very good at consoling someone. But yeah, don't forget there are guys out there who are not scumbags and I see no reason you won't find a guy who will show you as much love and respect as you can handle I want to punch your EX on your behalf lol. 1
Author smint Posted August 29, 2012 Author Posted August 29, 2012 WHAT IS THEIR PROBLEM??? Isn't it enough just left us for someone else???HOW POOR BEHAVIOR,do they know what hell of life they prepared us,sometimes I think that I will get gun and kill him!!!
escafeld Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 My ex left me for another girl,but never admitted me,treated me like dirt,after 7yrs of RS(my first everything),I am 26,he is 28,and she is also 28... He was sending me some signals to lower myself more and more,he was giving me some hope,I almost finished at therapist,when 2 months ago I decided strict NC,it has been 5,5 months ago since he left me(he left me on 12th March),and I heard that he already lives with her and her child who is 5,her husband died in accident in less then 6 months,and they are already living for 2 months together!!! Console yourself smint with the inevitable and messy ending of their relationship. Someone who enters into a live-in relationship 4 months after the dramatic death of her partner is simply looking for a crutch (she can't be blamed for that), the fallout from the loss of her partner is something your apparently shallow thinking ex will be unable to contend with unless he's made of teak and has a very balanced ego which it appears he hasn't.
stemac Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 @smint Why do people do that Because they are incapable of love, selfish, un-caring tossers Don`t waist your time you can do miles better then him, it will hit home onedaay for him and hopefully you will have moved on,a lot stronger and happier, it will happen :-)
Author smint Posted August 29, 2012 Author Posted August 29, 2012 Yeah,I strongly believe in it,I made some good results in my life even he wanted to make hell of my life,how big evil can be in people...I can't be indifferent,this what I saw today was another shock.I would never say that he is able to act like he is acting right now...
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