Olzman Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 Well if you read my other thread it will explain the whole story but I was talking to my ex about 2 weeks ago on a drunken night then I joined here and went no contact with her it has helped but in the past week she's emailed me and text me the email said," ring me for a chat, wow you deleted me off facebook in worries is everything ok" Then the text said " hey hope your ok, you should ring me for a chat" I want to speak to her but I don't as she's saying I should ring her but at the same time she's contacting me first, should I wait until she contacts me again if she ever does or shall I just forget her. She's also comming back to our home town with her new boyfriend, and I know I will bump into then both it's a small town ! Any advice would be great. Ollie
BDranger Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 The past doesn't matter, she found a new guy. Let her make her mistakes while she gives you the opportunity to move on, and get better, high quality, emotionally mature and available women. Available is key, because how you get 'em is how you lost 'em. Just don't reply to her anymore, or give her a nice message that closes the deal, and door. This chick needs to grow up and like I've stated, make mistakes.
Author Olzman Posted August 31, 2012 Author Posted August 31, 2012 The past doesn't matter, she found a new guy. Let her make her mistakes while she gives you the opportunity to move on, and get better, high quality, emotionally mature and available women. Available is key, because how you get 'em is how you lost 'em. Just don't reply to her anymore, or give her a nice message that closes the deal, and door. This chick needs to grow up and like I've stated, make mistakes. Thankyou for replying, I haven't replied to any of her messages and won't be either, I know she needs grow up as do I plus make mistakes for herself, her reasons for splitting up with me has totally backfired and she gone full 360 and done the opposite ! Thankyou Ollie
BDranger Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 She may just be confused. Let her enjoy her time for now while you get back into hobbies like car work and gym time. You want to be a bigger better you when she comes around. You will be surprised how often you will find better looking, smarter more mature women just by going for a run or going to the gym. Just tell yourself you can do better, after enough times you will believe yourself, and then life will take its course. Good luck!
Author Olzman Posted September 2, 2012 Author Posted September 2, 2012 Yea I think that's is the one I will do just that Thankyou for the replies I will definitely take it all onboard ! Thankyou Ollie
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