koreice Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 Hey guys, so i posted a new times on this forum that was before me and my girlfriend broke up. Now after 3 month she got a new boyfriend and im just.. heartbroken, because i thought she cared about me. But now it just feels like she broke up with me for someone else and never gave a **** about me. Yes im broken up now, my "first love" girlfriend for 8 month broke up with me 3 month ago, reasons unclear. Well its expected i was heart broken i thought we really would last and i didnt get any signs that we would break up. i was not prepared at all. After the break up i cried for weeks and my confidence was just destroyed, until i went back to China and went out and met a few girls and kinda got my confidence back. I went to summer camp 1 month after the break up and met this really cool girl and we went out, i needed to forget about my ex. I know this sounds immature getting together with a girl after 1 month of my "first love" breaking up with me. But i felt lonely and just ... depressed. After that 3 month after our break up.. which brings us to now she gets a new boyfriend, and i am devastated. her boyfriend goes to our school my girlfriend doesn't. After our break up she assured me that she wouldn't get a bf for the rest of highschool and one of her reasons for breaking up WAS cause bfs are distracting and junior year is an important year, also that she wasn't READY for a relationship . I know most of you will say your broken up already why do you care what she does? It just bothers me seeing... my first love with another guy, the memories we shared for her to share with someone else, she admits she still thinks about me and our memories make her hurt, but shes dating this freshman and he makes her get over me better. every time i see him i just want to throw his little ass in a trash can ( call me jealous) Every time i think about her with someone else im just... devastated, and i just feel week. Can someone please give me some advice as to how to get over this.
winstonsdreams Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 Read my thread dude, i broke up with my ex and regretted the ***t out of it two months later, but she had already found a new guy, that was 6 weeks after we broke up. I broke up with her and took the break up real bad, i certrainly didn't date in that 6 weeks period and came back. But she told me where to go, now she is happy with a new man and i am trying to pick up the pieces. My advice is what i receive from all the people on here, wish her well, tell her you will always be there for her and let go, go NC. That is pretty much what they say. I have been NC 4 weeks, i had to ignore the fact her birthday passed, and haven't heard a PEEP from her. But i love her, and if you love someone you have to let them go, everyone is entitled to happiness. Please don't think this compromises your relationship my ex loved me so much, she just doesn't like to be alone. Good luck to her, i will always love her. do the same please.
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