drivingmyselfcrazy Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 Okay, where do I start? All of my previous relationships have been completely horrible. I've been tread on like crazy and I became a cautious person it was bad. Now I couldn't be any more happier and I have no idea what I have done to deserve the boy in my life now. The only thing that worries is me, are my feelings... I get anxious/depressed over the slightest thing, but even if I think it's stupid I tell him about it and he appreciates that SO much. He adores honesty more than anything. He cares about me a lot and I am 100% certain he would do anything for me. This is where I need help on. He has never been a fan of technology (internet/fancy phones) all of that. (which.. I am not going to lie really really really attracted me to him).... Anyway, his sister forced him to make a facebook profile a few days ago. So he decided to make an alter ego one instead and added just a few friends including me. For some RETARDED reason this bothered me, very much so. Which doesn't make sense as I have a profile but never talk to anyone on there, i post music videos. So... I told him that this bothered me and I thought that he'd get sucked up in this whole facebook thing and forget all about me. Instantly, he was like go look at my profile. Without hesitation he got rid of it today after only having it for not even 3 days. I FELT TERRIBLE, still do!!!!!!! It's not like I wanted him to do that. He just did it and he said "I don't care about it, I care about you" We are in a long distance relationship and he talks to me ALL the time. He always makes time for me but when I skip chatting to him for one day I freak out thinking yep, thats it for me. What is wrong with me??? Is my past haunting me? I know I am worrying way to much. I tell him everything I am feeling even if it sound redic and he doesn't seem to think Im a weirdo. If I was him and he was I... I would have said bye to me a long time ago. He is sooooooo patient it hurts. Gosh, he is amazing. HELP? hahaha
FitChick Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 You might want to be more selective in what you tell him because you might turn him off eventually if you seem too neurotic. Fix yourself first or you will sabotage this. 2
Radu Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 He might have been looking for an excuse to delete it anyway, did it myself in the past with other social networking sites ... even though i'm big on forums. Otherwise, FitChick is spot on. 1
Ami1uwant Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 This is where I need help on. He has never been a fan of technology (internet/fancy phones) all of that. (which.. I am not going to lie really really really attracted me to him).... Anyway, his sister forced him to make a facebook profile a few days ago. So he decided to make an alter ego one instead and added just a few friends including me. For some RETARDED reason this bothered me, very much so. Which doesn't make sense as I have a profile but never talk to anyone on there, i post music videos. So... I told him that this bothered me and I thought that he'd get sucked up in this whole facebook thing and forget all about me. Instantly, he was like go look at my profile. Without hesitation he got rid of it today after only having it for not even 3 days. I FELT TERRIBLE, still do!!!!!!! It's not like I wanted him to do that. He just did it and he said "I don't care about it, I care about you" We are in a long distance relationship and he talks to me ALL the time. He always makes time for me but when I skip chatting to him for one day I freak out thinking yep, thats it for me. What is wrong with me??? Is my past haunting me? I know I am worrying way to much. I tell him everything I am feeling even if it sound redic and he doesn't seem to think Im a weirdo. If I was him and he was I... I would have said bye to me a long time ago. He is sooooooo patient it hurts. Gosh, he is amazing. HELP? hahaha Some people have absolutely no desire for facebook and collecting former friends from high school. Facebook isnt that big of a deal to me. The main reason I have a profile is because through facebook is how I hear about events through my family/relatives/close friends. I would love to the know the number of how many relationships ended because of facebook somehow or someway. Common proble---"you dont list yourself as in a relationship with me"
pteromom Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 It's good you have someone who values you enough to immediately take care of something that bothers you. But it will get old if he keeps having to change things or do things differently in order to keep you feeling secure. You need to work on yourself, or you will end up losing him down the line. 1
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