knowledge14811 Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 (edited) I HAD girlfriend for 7 years we lived together pretty much the whole time almost. She was my first love Im 28 now. She left because she said we didnt get along and i treated her like ****. I would kinda neglect her like i was embarrassed of her kinda. But that was in the begininng then i fell i love with her. I took me a while. We had a very strong romance, went to hawaii, napa ca, camping, and i know her whole family she knows mine. We been broke up for a year now. She says she loves me but need time and space from me because she is mad and resents me from how i treated her. When shes calm she says time and space. Whens shes mad she says move forward. Shes just stated dating the first guy since me. She said she went to dinner with him. Probably will get sexual just like all man/women dating. I dated other girls but My heart is stuck with her. She said she has a soft spot for me but i kinda messed up from panicing and trying to get her back. it pushed her farther from me I emailed her, called her, texted her, hacked her facebook, and other obssessive behavior. She didnt get a retraining order on me because I know she still has something for me in her heart. I never was violent because i luv her. I stopped my aggressive behavior of trying to get her back because she isssss waaaaaayyy pushed away from me now. She is begging for time and space she is tired sad and angery with me. do you think in the future she will come around because of our strong foundation and history? we basically grew up together and woke up and went to sleep together for a quater of our lives. I luv her maybe in a couple years all wounds will heal so we can look at each other in the eyes. she says she luvs me. and i luv her no matter who shes with. I hope she wont throw us completely away for life! Edited August 29, 2012 by knowledge14811
billybobbyjoe Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 I think i know what you're going through. I'm in this situation now, perhaps only time will tell if you guys are really meant for each other or not. That's what i'm doing. Just hope everything is not too late when you both realize that you missed out on each other.
Author knowledge14811 Posted September 1, 2012 Author Posted September 1, 2012 Well she was my first major love and hers too I think we will always b memory, but there are other relationships that are healthier. So maybe you and I should let go and hope time heals all wounds. And maybe a clean new friendly relationship can start.
Joaquin Posted September 1, 2012 Posted September 1, 2012 Funny how a mans heart can't seem to let go the moment the girl finds another man. U don't love her, I think you just wanna keep control of this girl.
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