AlfOps21 Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 I developed this new bad habit where I stare at this cute girl in my class. I have no hope of asking her out, but at least I'd like her to know that I exist and wish she ask me out. I tried had not to stare but she's right in my eyesight when the teacher is giving a lecture and my eyes are just attracted her. What to do?
ihateslowjams Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 I developed this new bad habit where I stare at this cute girl in my class. I have no hope of asking her out, but at least I'd like her to know that I exist and wish she ask me out. I tried had not to stare but she's right in my eyesight when the teacher is giving a lecture and my eyes are just attracted her. What to do? Say "Hi!" or "Hey!" or "how did the prof. figure that out?" Ofcourse, sitting next to her makes those much easier. Afterwards, just take it from there. Go with the flow.
esteem-jam Posted August 29, 2012 Posted August 29, 2012 What do you want with this girl? Long term relationship -or- she just has cute ass and boobs? You dont have to decide now. Think it over. There is no time limit, your life does not decide now. If she rejects you, and by 80 % I say she will, then your classes will be hell. But rejection is also a part of life, need to experience it and train a tougher skin. There was this cute lady I sometimes saw in a store. I thought, it seemed to me like the situation screamed that I talk to her, there was this weird body chemistry. I see her alone carrying the shopping bags and going home from work. I think maybe I felt some pity at moments, and I think what would our relationship be like? I see her alone most times, but also some occasion where she was accompanied by a man. Even though the situation screamed that we talk, get acquainted, I see no long term future. I would hate to break her heart, or my heart be broken... then we would pass later each others as strangers. I think its good that I did not do anything.
Author AlfOps21 Posted August 29, 2012 Author Posted August 29, 2012 I can't bring myself to talk to her. What I'm going to try and do is smile at her. She'll look at me now and mess with her hair, but I can't look at her if she's looking at me yet.
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