asilisa Posted July 18, 2004 Posted July 18, 2004 So me and my boyfriend broke up on Thursday (his decision), and I've been going non-stop since then. I kinda feel like us breaking up was for the best, but sometimes I find myself wishing he was back with me. I'm worried that by going non-stop i'm just avoiding thinking about the situation and I'll never fully get over him. I also have a lot of other fears about future relationships and things of that nature. Also I'm kinda friends with his cousin and his cousin's girlfriend and I have anxiety about seeing them, because it will make me think of him too much. And then the whole situation of him meeting another girl, how do i deal with that? I'm thinking about going to a therapist (for this problem and others i haven't dealt with), I was just wondering if anyone else went through this? thanks.
miz_barby Posted July 18, 2004 Posted July 18, 2004 I'm worried that by going non-stop i'm just avoiding thinking about the situation What do you mean?
reasontosigh Posted July 18, 2004 Posted July 18, 2004 My take is that she's been keeping herself so busy as to not think about what's happened at all, and fears such avoidance may not allow her to think of potential situations that may crop up later. Am I close?
miz_barby Posted July 18, 2004 Posted July 18, 2004 Alrighty...well in that case, the best thing I say you can do is just avoid bumping into him, maybe not seeing him will help ease the pain.
Author asilisa Posted July 18, 2004 Author Posted July 18, 2004 I mean that by keeping so busy I don't think about the break up so much. And I'm worried that maybe I'm just like in denial or something and it'll hit me unexpectly.
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