LoveHurts88 Posted August 28, 2012 Posted August 28, 2012 My ex broke up with me for about a month now.. At first i didnt seem to miss her as much but lately these past couple of days ive been thinking about her constantly.. We spoke a couple das ago, she told me she went partying and now she seems like shes doin some other stuff that she never used to.. Gigs? Reason why we talked was because she called me at 5am and i thought she was in trouble. Its been 3 days of NC and onto the 4th but now i am really missing her 1
countryboy93 Posted August 28, 2012 Posted August 28, 2012 If there's one thing i can tell you is that.if she is keeping in contact with you then she still has feelings....one day everything will work out i just jumped out of a 6 year relationship and it was hard to get her off my mind but i had to turn around and walk the other way if you feel like you really need her then you need to try your hardest.to win her back...but it will always end up good no matter what...god bless
Author LoveHurts88 Posted August 28, 2012 Author Posted August 28, 2012 (edited) If there's one thing i can tell you is that.if she is keeping in contact with you then she still has feelings....one day everything will work out i just jumped out of a 6 year relationship and it was hard to get her off my mind but i had to turn around and walk the other way if you feel like you really need her then you need to try your hardest.to win her back...but it will always end up good no matter what...god bless Thanks! This is our 2nd breakup.. She seems to have interest in whats going on what me like i just got a job and never told her she was really surprised amd tolde to treat her to dinner etc.. She said she still misses me but we are probably better off separated. Im sure shes seeing someone else. I miss her and all but its not fair for me to want to wait for her. Its kinda hard. I shouldnt say for sure, but she probably interested in someone else. Gut feeling and my gut feelings are usually bang on Edited August 28, 2012 by LoveHurts88
Arcanum Posted August 28, 2012 Posted August 28, 2012 One of the things people do after a break up is try new things, new hobbies, reinvent themselves as it were. It's not surprising she is doing new things. It is however totally normal to miss someone. Especially when they ended it. It may be that it took a while to sink in. I think the best thing you can do is keep going with the NC and try some new things yourself. There are loads of posts here from people on how they cope with a break up, have a read and see what feels good for you. It will get better.
Author LoveHurts88 Posted August 28, 2012 Author Posted August 28, 2012 One of the things people do after a break up is try new things, new hobbies, reinvent themselves as it were. It's not surprising she is doing new things. It is however totally normal to miss someone. Especially when they ended it. It may be that it took a while to sink in. I think the best thing you can do is keep going with the NC and try some new things yourself. There are loads of posts here from people on how they cope with a break up, have a read and see what feels good for you. It will get better. Dont get me wrong i go out an hang with my friends etc but i was not missing her much. But as of late ive been wantin to msg her since she still has her stuff here at my place.
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