jamie1987 Posted August 28, 2012 Posted August 28, 2012 Hi all was just looking for some advice as im feeling rather crap today. My ex partner broke up with me about 4 months ago we are both 24 and have a child together. I was really hurt and depressed when she broke up with me due to her not loving me anymore and was struggling to cope as our familiy was no more even lost my job to the it. The only way i thought i could deal withit was by meeting other ppl and trying to move on but that just made me think of her more as i always compared the girls i met no matter how much i tried not too. But recently ive moved out of my mothers house and got my own place and met a girl who i like but even after 4 months i still cant stop thinking bout my ex. But my question is whenever i talk to my ex regarding out child i have so much anger towards her and always try to start arguments and i dont understand why i do this, like also i try to let her know ive met someone else to see her reaction and stuff i just do alot of **** things even tho i thought i was past her and moving on can anyone relate to this ?
weallfalldown Posted August 28, 2012 Posted August 28, 2012 A...your rebound will suffer B....you will get over it C....the more you argue etc, the longer you'll drag out the hurt and pain my friend. make some major decisions......do you want to hurt this girl your with? do you want to cause a bad relationship/friendship with your kids mother? believe me, talking from experience, if you antagonise your ex, she'll make your life hard when it comes to your kid. been there done that. move away from the past and concentrate on yourself...then your kid....
Author jamie1987 Posted August 28, 2012 Author Posted August 28, 2012 Yeah i know what ur saying i just hate all the pain she caused me and its as if she justed walked away from it feeling good and i was to suffer and its like i want her to suffer now i know its wrong just how i feel
sissy106 Posted August 28, 2012 Posted August 28, 2012 If u really love her and want things to go back to normal, then focus on ur carrier instead of other relationships. If u think that she can come back in ur life and u want to live like a happy family coz now u also have a child with her, then u should try to get back to her by allowing her to do watever she wants to do. Dont bother her or follow her but for sure, dont loose contact with her. Give her all time and space that she needs today coz maybe she is burdened due to responsibility of a child. Just call her up from time to time, just to know how she is and howz the baby. Maybe then u get a chance to unite ur family. U can try this thing for about a year. Take care
weallfalldown Posted August 28, 2012 Posted August 28, 2012 Don;t let her walk all over you, women play on this when your suffering.... Keep your balls hard.....and your pecker rocking.......**** i knew i should have left the cider alone.
Author jamie1987 Posted August 28, 2012 Author Posted August 28, 2012 yeah i know im just stupid at times its just really hared to forget and be the bigger person
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