SoMuchLuv Posted August 28, 2012 Posted August 28, 2012 Hiiiii. So I'm a 20 year old girl, living in NYC. I moved here from Florida 2 years ago, and met my ex here too. We dated for a year & 1/2, fell madly in love, he was my everything & I was his. Throughout our relationship, I was an amazing girlfriend to him. He was an amazing boyfriend, but at times he got so stubborn we used to argue over things because he couldn/t see where I was coming from. He's been to my house in Florida 3 times over the year & 1/2 we dated. He met my parents. He told me I was his family. However, about 2 weeks ago, he was in Florida visiting me. We discussed breaking up a couple times, due to our own personal agendas (getting busy in life, etc.). We said we needed to give each other space from the time he left until the time I would be returning back to NYC (10 days), so I said ok. I removed him from my Facebook friends, only for that week, so I didn't have to see what he was doing. However, the morning after I removed him, I happen to see him change his relationship status to single (which really didn't bother me) until I saw him post a cartoon pic saying "hes single"... that upset me. We talked about it then broke up about a day later. We were both upset but I was trying to talk to him about it. He didnt want to talk... Over the next days when we were apart he didnt want to talk to me, a lot. I would just try to text him at least to see how he was. My mind was in the mindset we were broken up, but I was trying to let him know that if we actually DO breakup, I cannot be his friend. We talked & he said he missed me & would give it another shot but we should start slowly, to re enter the relationship. He never called me once or texted me after that, so I called him before I came back to NY. I asked him if he still wanted to see me when i came back. He said he didnt want it to be awkward when we saw each other. THAT HURT ALOT!!! I said ok, and that I wouldnt bother him. He has some of my stuff & I have his, but I dont want to see him now. I'm not going to talk to him until he texts me. Any advice?
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