irc333 Posted August 28, 2012 Posted August 28, 2012 I'm noticing a lot of people, both male and female, asking their person of interest out to group gatherings. With Labor Day coming up, as an example. Let's say a guy meets a woman at a party...gets to know her, gets her number and then says, "Hey, there's Labor Day party at my friend's house next week, would you be interested in attending? It's kind of a way to "ease" into a dating relationship with said person, and also allows you to get to know them in a group setting, with less pressure, then....you can ask them out on a one on one date. I see this does happen a lot, and with pretty good success....can anyone concur with this method?
Emilia Posted August 28, 2012 Posted August 28, 2012 Yes of course. I invite guys to parties like that often when I'm interested in getting to know them. Why not? No pressure on anyone
RedRobin Posted August 28, 2012 Posted August 28, 2012 I prefer the approach you mentioned above over a one-on-one date request when it is a stranger or near stranger.
GirlontheLam Posted August 28, 2012 Posted August 28, 2012 I mixed on this approach. It depends on the person. I generally love to plan the whole group outing thing, but I find that if the other person is "shy" then that environment isn't well suited to getting to know them. (Especially if other people are social butterflies that tend to drown out everyone else.)
Radu Posted August 28, 2012 Posted August 28, 2012 OMG ... u womenz are so manipulative ! Seriously though, i never considered that she might invite me to a party to get to know me especially. I'm so dumb sometimes.
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