The girl I was seeing keeps looking at me, Does she possibly want to try again?

[Andy119]

So there was this girl I was seeing a bit at work, I really liked her and she called it off a couple of months ago. I was pretty heartbroken so there was a couple of text of me pouring out my feelings for her (the wrong thing to do but I was emotional)

 

She started spreading rumours about me that I was stalking her (I wasn't). She also spread a lot of other stuff about other people at work who were supposed to be her friends (from what I heard anyway).

 

The other day I had just came back from holiday. When I was away I had gotten drunk and sent her a text saying I missed her (don't know why, I still don't remember sending it lol). so I hadn't seen or spoken to her in like 2 and a half weeks and she asked me how my holiday was. I answered okay and walked away. later she was walking over to me while I was working (I could see her with my peripheral vision) then someone called her name and she headed off in a different direction.

 

At the end of the shift she looked genuinely hurt like about to cry.

 

Now she just keeps looking at me sometimes direct (we made eye contact a few times) and sometimes when my back is turned but I can still see her out of my peripheral vision or I'll turn around for something and she'll look away.

 

She hasn't tried to talk to me yet tho.

 

To clarify, I still like this girl (even after what she did...I know crazy right?), I still think about her a lot and I get a a twinge in my stomach whenever I think about kissing her. I really wanna talk to her and tell her that I still have feelings for her but I don't know if it's appropriate, how to go about it or if things could ever be the same between us.

[Tiera D]

my ex was a person who like to gossip,trust me dont let her lead you on it isnt worth it,you know what type person she is a liar,deep within you u know what person shes like,i wish i had someone to tell me what i told you right now b4 i dated my ex,even u succeeded i see a tough road of pain ahead

 

TD

[IncredibleGrace]

Well, everyone deserves a second chance but I'd be concerned about someone who felt the need to spread lies and gossip about other people....accusing someone of 'stalking' is a serious thing...that can land you in trouble with the police!

 

I think if you really do like her and think she's worth a second chance, then let her come to you. After all, she ended it...so the ball is in her court. Be responsive and friendly but don't make any moves and then see what happens. If you do get a shot at a second chance, you need to have a serious talk with her and find out what motivates her to do those things....and then you can make a guess as to whether she is really worth your time or not....

[Simon Phoenix]

She accused you of stalking in the workplace? Stay far, far away from this one.

[Andy119]

wee update, I've spoken to her a bit and she said she tried speaking to me because she knows I still like her and she thought it would make things easier on me. but because I didn't seem to want anything to do with her she's really confused.

 

Dunno if that's bull**** or not?

[Simon Phoenix]

wee update, I've spoken to her a bit and she said she tried speaking to me because she knows I still like her and she thought it would make things easier on me. but because I didn't seem to want anything to do with her she's really confused.

 

Dunno if that's bull**** or not?

 

Dude, run far away from this one. You don't want to be involved.

[Tiera D]

simon he is not gona run,i believe personally i go back 3 months ago and tell myselve my ex is toxic i my own wont believe it,by the way that chick is toxic

 

TD

[Andy119]

simon he is not gona run,i believe personally i go back 3 months ago and tell myselve my ex is toxic i my own wont believe it,by the way that chick is toxic

 

TD

 

 

Yeah you're right Tiera, I'm not that sort of person, although I know I would probably be better off.

[Tiera D]

since your gona try anyway i suggest u take precaution,as long she is unable to cheat anything big, like money even it dint work i hope its a lesson to learn,well if it work well gl to u

 

TD

[Andy119]

Thanks, I will be careful