Vcf Posted August 28, 2012 Posted August 28, 2012 Hi all, this is my first post. Basically looking for some advice about my situation. I feel like I may have rushed into marriage. My wife and I are both in our mid twenties. I met her whilst I was gaming online. We formed an emotional bond quite quickly, the truth is I loved talking to her, would look forward to it. After a few weeks we started flirting and the things started to get a bit my serious. It turned out we didn't live too far from each other so we decided to meet up. To be honest I was a bit surprised by her appearance. I had no idea what she looked like until we met up. She is fairly overweight, but I had formed a close bond to her and quickly found that I loved being in her company. Fast forward 6 months and we got married, things moved really quickly. My problem is that physically I don't really find her attractive, but I'm seriously in love with her if that makes sense. She is a wonderful person, which is why I fell for her so quickly, I don't want to hurt this girl as she is a brilliant wife.
todreaminblue Posted August 28, 2012 Posted August 28, 2012 Hi all, this is my first post. Basically looking for some advice about my situation. I feel like I may have rushed into marriage. My wife and I are both in our mid twenties. I met her whilst I was gaming online. We formed an emotional bond quite quickly, the truth is I loved talking to her, would look forward to it. After a few weeks we started flirting and the things started to get a bit my serious. It turned out we didn't live too far from each other so we decided to meet up. To be honest I was a bit surprised by her appearance. I had no idea what she looked like until we met up. She is fairly overweight, but I had formed a close bond to her and quickly found that I loved being in her company. Fast forward 6 months and we got married, things moved really quickly. My problem is that physically I don't really find her attractive, but I'm seriously in love with her if that makes sense. She is a wonderful person, which is why I fell for her so quickly, I don't want to hurt this girl as she is a brilliant wife. I fidn thsi situation pretty sad.....i would eb mortified if i were your wife and read this.....whther or not she is brilliant you dont marry soemone you are not physically attracted too.....My ex would turn off me after the birth of my babies....he would nto hold my hand walking down the street as i gained kilos during pregnancy eatign healthy but alot....i gave him three girls......so after pregnancy i would get fit extremely gfit stop traffic fit....and suddenlyi when i am fit i am a rabbit so the cycle starts again......birth fitness my exes undying interest .....and i am a good person too...now i have put on weight the main reason being i ward off mens attention with extra weight makes me unhappy to feel unfit i am unhappy more being harassed......do you see how pyhsical perception can play on a womans mind????? leave your wife no matter how brilliant she is let her be with someeone who loves her body and her mind......that is complete love........dont give her half hearted oh yes your great i love you you will only hurt her in the end...i would not like to be that person in a marriage ....i would not feel sexy at all...start looking for things you find appealing physically if you cant you shouldn't be with her.....see the package not just the insides....work on it or go before years pass....i wish you luck in life and love....and i wish your wife the same.....deb 1
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