What the heck does this mean.

[Rock Star S]

Hi there,

I am new to this site and was told that I should bring my question to all of you and see if you can help.

 

My boyfriend and I broke up in June. We for the most part had a great relationship when he was in town. He was an over the road truck driver, he would leave town Friday night and get back Wednesday Thursday and sometimes even Friday. He had a long distance relationship during the week when he was gone and also when he was home as he lived about an hour from me. He would always stop to see me on his way home from his trip or on his way out to his trip for the week.

 

His mom and I got rather close as trucking is in the family, he wanted me and her to talk often to find out if the trucking life is something I could do.

 

well anyways we broke up and we haven't talked much recently as I am trying to give him space and see what he wants. I have talked with his mother though. He recently told me that he hasn't taken down the photo of just him and on in the TV in the living room. What the heck does this mean???

[danderson3]

Could mean anything. I had a photo of an ex and I in our lounge room for over a year. Not because I had feelings for her, but I just forgot about it and it kinda just blended into the room.

 

Wasn't until my next GF that I realized it was still there, due to her being pretty annoyed about it lol.

 

That's my input for my situation though. It could be completely different for you/him so don't take that to heart. You know what he is like as a person, is it something he looked at regularly or was it more of just a pretty shelf filler.

 

You sound like your doing well though! so keep it up. Would his mother call you if he didn't ask her to? or does she just call on her own accord? the answer to this might give you a better take on the situation

[Rock Star S]

Actually he still lives at home with his parents, as he is only home three days a week if that. Its in the family room on the TV at their house. Everyone sees it I mean everyone that comes over. He recently told me (about six weeks ago) in an email that he doesn't want to cut me out of his life but that we just shouldn't talk for right now its best for both of us.

 

As far as his mom, I usually communicate with her now as she told me I could whenever I wanted to and she feels odd contacting me first. He knows we talk and he doesn't mind.