prsc24 Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 Hi New to this so bare with me. One of my best friends, whom I have never seen as a potential girlfriend and I had a moment of physical attraction. But we stopped as it seemed like the wrong thing to do. I mean we have been like brother and sister for years but for one moment things changed. That was a few months ago and we didn't talk about it after and continued like nothing happened. I started seeing someone and she seemed happy for me. But something I found out after I broke up with this girl is that my friend actually did have feelings for me but was waiting for me to come to her. But I didn't, and as a result she slept around and became depressed. The thing is I was and still am in lover with her. Only now she has moved on from that and is seeing a guy who is an ok guy, but I know she doesn't care about truly. I don't want them to break up, not over my feelings. But I just feel stuck and so incredibly regretful. I'm not here for answers. I know there isn't one. I just needed to vent. My friends who know us both have told us for years we should have been together, but that I need to just let it go. She and I are still friends, just to be clear. We would never have let this break us as friends. I just needed closure. Hope someone out there reads this and knows if they are in the same situation, that I and probably many others know how difficult it can be. Kind regards, Me
Recommended Posts