colbelly Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 My husband fell off a roof a couple of months ago shattering his heel. He has been to physical therapy since. He has come home and told me about his therapist. She has told him about her relationship problems with her current boyfriend as well as her ex husband. He goes three times a week for 4 months so I can understand getting into these kinda conversations. She mentioned to him that I should come in for pilates classes due a back condition I have. So I have been going for a week. On Friday he told me that she is celebrating today that her divorce is official and proceeded to tell me about how much of a jerk that guy was and yada yada. He then told me just so I dont think somethings weird he bought her a bottle of wine for her to celebrate with. I believe the only reason he told me is because I also go and see her for therapy also. I dont feel that this cool. I didn't say much about that after that other than you better not be doing any funny stuff which was followed by I love you and only want you. We went some where this weekend and were both drinking I started to talk to this security guy about something and low and behold some one got jealous accused me of flirting with the guy. So of course I brought up the whole guess I am going to go out and buy all my hot doctors a bottle of wine ...he admitted that he was outta line. We have been together for 11 years and have three great kids and no other really problems. Am I outta line for being Heloise or is he the one outta line. Not sure how to handle this and not sure I want to continue to see this lady for my therapy. Any advice will help.
Greznog Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 There's nothing wrong with buying someone you've been seeing thrice a week for almost half a year a bottle of wine, your flirting with a security guy to make your husband jealous reeks of high school shenanigans. 1
CarrieT Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 He has been up front about all of his interactions with her and even suggested you go meet and do Pilates with her? I dunno - I live in wine country and we give bottles of wine to our mailmen! I don't see it as a big deal except how you both have blown things out of proportion. Yeah, you are over reacting. 1
quankanne Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 I don't think a bottle of wine is a step in the direction of cheating ~ I've given jewelry and religious objects to the women who've cared for my parents as gifts of appreciate for the help they've given; I'm guessing your husband figured wine was a good way for the therapist to celebrate. your comment about the sexy doctors was plain mind-game. Do you really want to introduce that to a relationship that's been solid this far? What does it add? 1
Author colbelly Posted August 27, 2012 Author Posted August 27, 2012 Agree it adds nothing I have never had to deal with this type of situation before. We do have a solid relationship. I have already apologized but you can't take back your words. For the record I was not flirting with the security guy. guess I just need to learn to shut up some times and not always say what's on my mind when I am drinking. not trying to play mind games or create drama when we are not those type of people. Thanks for helping put my mind at ease.
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