There is light at the end of the tunnel people :)

[Fallenandbroken]

Wow. I feel so different to how I did a few months ago. Hears an update of my story.

 

Well My ex decided to start dating someone new a couple weeks after a falling out. I begged her to reconsider she said she was happy and wished me well. It hit me hard and life just seemed like one uphill struggle. I initiated no contact about 3 months ago and have not contacted or heard from my ex since. I have seen her together with her new by since and it did bother me a little but I did not let her see that it did.

 

A girl I've known for a long time and dated a few times in the past invited me round hers for a takeaway Friday night and we had a few drinks and one thing led to another and I ended up sleeping with her. It made me feel like a man again lol I'm sure the guys reading this will know what I mean.

 

I don't expect to hear from my ex again so after a few months of getting over her I now feel ready to start dating again and knowing that my confidence is coming back and there will be other girls has picked me up a few more notches.

 

Those that have just gone through a break up and are looking for some help all I can say is take it one day at a time and live for yourself. I don't know if your ex will come back or not but I do know that eventually you'll get through it.

 

Good luck and keep your head up. It DOES get better.

[ladyabstrused]

I must say that I probably went through something similar.

 

Things do get better at some point, if not soon. Just need a lot of patience and yes, it's easier said than done. But when you be positive about things and give out positivity, positive things come back to you. That's what I believe.

[El Brujo]

So... when are you going to tell us the part about the light at the end of the tunnel? All I see is a post about getting over an ex and putting yourself back on the market.

[Fallenandbroken]

When I was dumped I never thought I'd find anyone else again. I was full of the self defeatist attitude most people get after a break up and now a few months later I've realised it's wrong to think that and the light at the end of the tunnel is that regardless of your ex coming back or not life goes on.

[ladyabstrused]

My light at the end of the tunnel was actually living life again. Enjoying the beauty of living, the beauty of the simple pleasures in life like helping someone in need or something that makes me feel good. It's good to live again.