the situation

[justbhonest]

My Girl and I had a small fight 1 day about 1 of her friends. apparently It looked to her that I was interested in her friend and that I was putting out signals to her. To me it wasn't the case, (I am not attracted to her friend at all) and cant compare to my Girl .. (who is the love of my life and fulfills everything I need and way more)

So the situation ....

She comes across a Nude picture of her friend on the computer and asks me if i would like too see her naked?

I said "no" and she asked why and i reminded her of a few weeks past that we fought and that i wasn't interested in arguing again

so a few days pass and I saw the USB drive it was on. And my GF was leaving for the store to get smokes and stuff, and I plugged it in and looked at the pics of her friend. (we have a nanny cam bear) FYI

later that night she shows me the video of me looking at the pics..

now shes saying that I do want her firiend?

and that I just cheated on her by looking at it and she cant trust me anymore

 

I wasn't thinking at the time and I broke her heart.....

I need opinions on the whole thing and advice on what to do about it....

[Greznog]

She needs to stop whining, you can't tell someone you have naked pictures of someone and then cry when they look at them.

[woinlove]

Your gf sounds insecure, which makes it difficult to have a mature, loving relationship. Counselling would likely help her understand and resolve her feelings of insecurity.

 

That is strange behavior to tell you about nude pictures of her friend after arguing about this. Her insecurity makes her need to test you. Until she resolves this, which is really a problem internal to her, the insecurity, she will be setting up tests meant for you to fail. You can try to reassure her and watch out for tests, but really she needs to do some work on herself to gain more confidence.

[justbhonest]

thank you for your responses and I will look in to cupple counceling for both of us, after all I do have my falts aswell.