Should i put everything behind me and try to work things out?

[sumsunsett]

My boyfriend of four years allowed his baby mama to set up a facebook and twitter account for him and i found it very disrespectful. After trying to talk to him about it he flipped out and told me he is innocent and i am being wicked. I told him that i don't understand why he could not refuse and he said i can not make decisions for him, which is true. We never got to finish the conversation and he said that he is not running behind anyone, i told him i just need to know that he is serious. He took me home and the next day neither of us called one another. So the following day i tried to text him he answered hours later with just a what. So i tried to call him almost ten times he refused to answer and when i tried to get him to see me so we could work things out he said no. Its five days later and i did not call him back. I do not want to throw myself at him because whenever we get into an argument, I'm always the person who calls and try to work things out. He is still a contact on my blackberry and whenever he changes his status pics sometimes i feel like he is reaching out but then he put up one that said "everyday is motivation to reach that goal". I know i may seem weird but i figure he has left me without saying a word and he is not missing me at all. I feel so bad because i told myself if he cares he will get back to me seeing how i tried so hard but here i am looking at my phone and five days later he hasnt called at all.