havNfun Posted July 18, 2004 Posted July 18, 2004 The last ranking post I left provoked some interesting responses so I thought I would leave this one: I am wondering what bothers women and men. What bothers us in relationship most and do the things that bother men differ from the things that bother women? Please rank the following things in terms of what bothers you most to what bothers you least. Again, items cannot be equal, you may have to make a choice about your priority. the items are: A) significant other goes out and does not come back until the next morning. B) Your significant other develops a "friendship" relationship with member of the opposite sex at work and has been going to lunch and a few happy hours with that person. It is clear that you are not a part of this friendship. C) Your significant other has a friendship of the same sex. They go out regularly (maybe 1 or two times a week) and you are not invited. D) Your significant other tells you that you have gained weight and that it is bothering them. E) Your significant other gains 20 lbs F) You catch wind that your significant other's parents and/or family doesn't like you. G) you catch wind that your significant other's good friend doesn't like you. H) your significant other lost some interest in sex and only wants it 1 every two weeks. I) your significant other starts to want sex constantly and talks about it non-stop J) Your significant other won't propose or committ 100% K) your significant other is too committed - their life revolves around you. L) you find out that your significant other was a total slut in highschool I know these are a lot of items so just try to explain what rankings you can. here is my ranking: B,F,A,C,D,L,E,H,J,G,K,I There is my list. again I know it is long and may take a few minutes. I would love to hear your reasoning but just explain what you have time to. thank you and I look forward to your responses and learning what bothers us the most. thanks
honey2005 Posted July 18, 2004 Posted July 18, 2004 Another post that makes you think. I like these J) Your significant other won't propose or committ 100% - I don't really mind if he doesnt' propose, he can do that when he's ready, but if I am going to be in a relationship with someone, I would want them to be committed to me 100%. If he is fully committed to me, some of the other things that follow in this list would be less bothersome because I trust him. But without his full committment, I don't see how I could have a relationship. A) significant other goes out and does not come back until the next morning. - I can just imagine sitting at home not knowing where your s/o was, what they were doing, and who they were doing it with. Or worse, worrying that they had gotten in some kind of accident. B) Your significant other develops a "friendship" relationship with member of the opposite sex at work... - It wouldn't be the fact that my s/o developed a friendship with someone of the opposite sex that would bother me so much, just they were spending so much time with them and not wanting to include me. If I was included it would be a different story. F) You catch wind that your significant other's parents and/or family doesn't like you. - Family is very important to many people, and I would be really bothered if the person I was in love with's family didn't like me. There approval would be something I would really like. H) your significant other lost some interest in sex and only wants it 1 every two weeks. - If they started to lose interest in sex, I would feel maybe there was something wrong between us. G) you catch wind that your significant other's good friend doesn't like you. - If I was in a serious relationship I would really want his friends to like me. D) Your significant other tells you that you have gained weight and that it is bothering them. - I would like the fact that he was honest with me, but still, if he loves me he should accept me for who I am, and instead of complaining about it, help me lose weight. L) you find out that your significant other was a total slut in highschool - Even though it's in the past, it would still get to me a little. C) Your significant other has a friendship of the same sex. They go out regularly (maybe 1 or two times a week) and you are not invited. - It's good for him to have friends, but I would like to be invited every once in awhile. K) your significant other is too committed - their life revolves around you. - I'd like for them to be committed, but not overly so. They need to want to do things alone sometimes, too. E) Your significant other gains 20 lbs - As long as it isn't hurting him healthwise, him gaining weight wouldn't bother me. But if it affected his health, I would try to help him lose some.
Mr baseball Posted July 18, 2004 Posted July 18, 2004 I would say that they all suck!!! I have a and c in my life right now and those two could be the down side of my marriage.
soccorsilly Posted July 18, 2004 Posted July 18, 2004 A-Out All Night K-Too Committed H-Lost Interest In Sex D-Tells Gained Weight F-Parents Don't Like G-Friend Doesn't Like J-Won't Committ I-Talks Non Stop of Sex L-Was a Slut B-Has Opposite Sex Friend E-Gains 20 Pounds C-Has Same Sex Friend
Caroli Posted July 18, 2004 Posted July 18, 2004 I like this kind of posts too J) Your significant other won't propose or committ 100% H) your significant other lost some interest in sex and only wants it 1 every two weeks. A) significant other goes out and does not come back until the next morning. B) Your significant other develops a "friendship" relationship with member of the opposite sex at work and has been going to lunch and a few happy hours with that person. It is clear that you are not a part of this friendship. F) You catch wind that your significant other's parents and/or family doesn't like you. K) your significant other is too committed - their life revolves around you. G) you catch wind that your significant other's good friend doesn't like you. E) Your significant other gains 20 lbs D) Your significant other tells you that you have gained weight and that it is bothering them. C) Your significant other has a friendship of the same sex. They go out regularly (maybe 1 or two times a week) and you are not invited. L) you find out that your significant other was a total slut in highschool I) your significant other starts to want sex constantly and talks about it non-stop
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