jennyhall74 Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 How does the NC rule work when you have a child? Me and my husband are separating at the end of September. We have a daughter and he will be having supervised visits. Supervised by me so how can I make the NC rule work for me?
amaysngrace Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 Why are his visits supervised? Is he a druggie or a sexual deviant? That should be the first rule to change unless it would put your child in harms way to be alone with dad. So why can't he be with her alone?
Author jennyhall74 Posted August 26, 2012 Author Posted August 26, 2012 Well she is still small under 2 and he will be living in shared accommodation so he won't have a place for her. He has agreed to this and I just don't know if he could take care of her for a day by himself. Since she has been born I've done everything for her, he may change a diaper here and there but I do everything. Even decide what she eats.
bunnyboileri Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 I agree, why supervise visits thats harsh. I am going through similar as i am seperated with a child and you just have to keep it short and sweet, I dont text my ex I know when he is coming for child if I have anything to discuss I do it briefly then. Good luck.
amaysngrace Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 Well she is still small under 2 and he will be living in shared accommodation so he won't have a place for her. He has agreed to this and I just don't know if he could take care of her for a day by himself. Since she has been born I've done everything for her, he may change a diaper here and there but I do everything. Even decide what she eats. And this is a court order? Tell him to take her to his moms or his grandmoms house or something. Babies born out of wedlock see their dads as newborns.
Author jennyhall74 Posted August 26, 2012 Author Posted August 26, 2012 He has asked it to be like this. Should I make it unsupervised?
amaysngrace Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 He has asked it to be like this. Should I make it unsupervised? I would. You need down time too plus it could get emotional with you two going through divorce and all and that's not good for your baby to see you guys fighting.
Author jennyhall74 Posted August 26, 2012 Author Posted August 26, 2012 Right now we are just separating, divorce has not been discussed. But child visits have to been made with my lawyer and this is why I ask if I should tell him to have unsupervised visits. He is the one that wants the separation so it will be hard to see him.
amaysngrace Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 Right now we are just separating, divorce has not been discussed. But child visits have to been made with my lawyer and this is why I ask if I should tell him to have unsupervised visits. He is the one that wants the separation so it will be hard to see him. I think it's just better for everyone if he sees your daughter unsupervised. If he's the one who wanted the separation he may not like seeing you and will stop seeing your daughter as a result. Unless he will harm your child, he should have unsupervised visitation. He is her father.
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