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Broke up because of her parents and religious differences


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Me and my ex-girlfriend had a great relationship, sure wefought sometimes, but we loved each other very much and shared a lot of commoninterests. We feel for each other very fast. We started saying “I love you” inabout a month’s time and talking about spending our life together after 2 months.Her parents did not like the relationship because we spent a lot of timetogether and that I was her first serious relationship. She is 19, I am 24.They thought she should “datearound” more. But their biggest issue was that she was a Christian and I wasagnostic

 

Me and my girlfriend talked about this issue when therelationship first starting getting serious and we agreed that differentreligious views are ok so long as we respect each other’s values. A few moremonths pass by and things are going really well between us. We are planning tomove in together. Well this throws her parents into a rage and they call hertell her if she keeps seeing me she will go to hell and that the entire familywill disown her. This went on for a while and in time she gave in and broke itoff with me. She says she wants to get back together one day and I can tell shestill loves me. Every time she sees meshe breaks down and cries.

She says she needs time to heal and wants to and to find herrelationship with god and then spend her life with me. I need advice on what to do here, on one handI love her deeply and would very much enjoy spending a lifetime with her, onthe other hand I don’t want to spend time waiting for something that may nevercome and prolonging my heart breaj

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Come on someone has to have valid advice for me, im hurting over here :(:(

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I am in a similar situation but I broke it off with him because he wouldn't introduce me to his parents, because I come from a different religion.

 

Just pray, and try to move past this. If you are meant to be then she will come around. But you can't dwindle on it.

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