lingardx Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 my boyfriend, (we got back together after having been broken up a week) stayed at mine last night (there was no trains so he had to) and it was the best night ever, but now i've got this sad feeling in my stomach and it feels bittersweet.. i don't know why i feel like this, i am thanking my stars everyday for having been given a second chance but something just doesn't feel right.. i mean i know it's going to take a long time for him to regain his trust me and i'm prepared for that but i just wish all those feelings of how we loved each other before would spring to the surface.. i do love him and i know he loves me so why am i struggling to hold in the tears?
Sav Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 my advice is to treat this relationship as a new one. The old relationship u shared with him is already broken and best left in the past. Don't rush into it just to re-live the moments u sharED with him. Take it slow, it would do both you and the relationship good in the long run
lemonlime Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 They were only broken up a week. Thats not enough time to move on and pretend like its a new relationship. Something like that takes months of separation. What happened that originally lead to the break up and whats going to be different now?
Sav Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 Then I'm sorry to say this but in my opinion it wouldn't work out. Unless both of you sit down and have a nice long talk about this particular problem and how you guys are going to tackle it. Make sure you are getting back together because you want to and not because you are afraid of the dark. I know I was once like that, afraid of letting go, afraid of being alone. I ended up hurting alot more people. So be careful on that one
Author lingardx Posted August 26, 2012 Author Posted August 26, 2012 They were only broken up a week. Thats not enough time to move on and pretend like its a new relationship. Something like that takes months of separation. What happened that originally lead to the break up and whats going to be different now? i pretend to someone else by texting him to see if he'd cheat. i've repented, i'm in counselling to amend my trust issues. i wasn't asking if the relationship can survive.
Author lingardx Posted August 26, 2012 Author Posted August 26, 2012 Then I'm sorry to say this but in my opinion it wouldn't work out. Unless both of you sit down and have a nice long talk about this particular problem and how you guys are going to tackle it. Make sure you are getting back together because you want to and not because you are afraid of the dark. I know I was once like that, afraid of letting go, afraid of being alone. I ended up hurting alot more people. So be careful on that one yes we are together because we really want to be, we want it to work this time. we know if it didn't work out then that's it for good
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