Dimitris26 Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 So... Hello from me again after a long long time... I got some news over my relationship... Lets make long story short - She(28) breaks up with me(26) because of my job (merchant navy away for months). The real reason was that our relationship gonne downhill (my fault on this one) - I ve done all the mistakes i shouldnt (cry for her etc etc) but in the end i gonne NC for 4-5 months. - I called her now (i feel *really*) much more solid and strong now but she still takes me for granted because i flirted with her and she also got me worried in some point cause she ate smth strange then throw up and i was worried around her... So she takes me for granted... - Thing is... i feel strong and i dont give (so much) of thinking what she thinks... i still love / care but nothin like i was... - The question is... How can I turn her not to think of me as granted? Tnx to anyone taking time reading and replying to me.
Canadian731 Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 Why does her being done with the relationship mean she is taking you for granted, did you ever think that maybe she is just trying to move on but can't because you call her? Sometimes things just don't work out man and you have to accept that, I know it's hard and It will take time, probably more then you want to give it but calling her and tryin to flirt with her isn't going to help you. You have to move on my friend.
Author Dimitris26 Posted August 26, 2012 Author Posted August 26, 2012 Why does her being done with the relationship mean she is taking you for granted, did you ever think that maybe she is just trying to move on but can't because you call her? Sometimes things just don't work out man and you have to accept that, I know it's hard and It will take time, probably more then you want to give it but calling her and tryin to flirt with her isn't going to help you. You have to move on my friend. She isnt trying to move on... or her tries are bad by a bit margin... Thing is we met and i flirted with her... and she thinks i am SOOO deeply into her like i was when we broke up (crying n things like that) which isnt the case... I Know she is into me cause she SAID to me she wanted to have some sex with me (yes i know it might be only sex) but i dont wanna be a "granted" after 1st meet already lol
Canadian731 Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 So what I am getting is that she is playing you, she wants what she wants but probably doesn't want a relationship with you, best bet is to cut ties and find a girl who will treat you better bro. Goodluck 1
Author Dimitris26 Posted August 26, 2012 Author Posted August 26, 2012 So what I am getting is that she is playing you, she wants what she wants but probably doesn't want a relationship with you, best bet is to cut ties and find a girl who will treat you better bro. Goodluck Thank you very much for your words of wisdom m8. i have also thought of that as well... I m not stuck on her no more... if something good rises into the picture i ll go for it... but untill then i ll just wanna make her understand i m not who i was. She thinks i am on a standby mode of what she decides... and i want to change that... but i m not entirely sure how... thats all. Anyway i have to thank you once more for all the suport etc. best of luck to you lad!!!
SadPanda22 Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 She thinks that you are on stand by mode for whatever she decides because you are. You let her take you for granted because you are still there for her even though she broke up with you. When she yanks the leash to see if you're still there...don't be. You are not just some toy for her to play with when she feels bored or lonely. Go NC and move on.
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