Freckas Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 This weekend without fail, my husbands single friend invited him and I out. He invites me because he knows I will not be cool with my husband going to the stripclub. You may wonder why the stripclub? why is this the only location he invites you to? I dont know the answer to that, in simple words I guess he's trash. Ive been judged so much for my choice of words but I cant worry about that anymore. My husband just texts back to the text invite that "not this weekend" and thats great I REALLY do appreciate it. But tonight we were at homedepot buying a load of mosquito gear, and that stupid text comes in. my single friend who cheats on every man she's been with, is with my husbands single friend. Why cant these two doh-doh birds come up with something to do by themselves?? Well shes already slept with him... I distanced myself from her a year ago and she is the type of fair weather friend that really is there to party but if you have to pack your house up to move she is busy busy busy. (which a friend shouldnt have to feel obligated to help you move, but thats an example) well if you've read the whole backstory you know I cant stand the strip clubs, Im tired of them the reason being I was a cool wife, but I was so cool that my husband got spoiled and when I decided to be "selfish" one night and sit in the car-- naively thinking he would not go in the stripclub, (next to the bar we were at) he did, I didn't say he couldn't I said " I dont want you to go, and if your going to go, you need to make it quick" Writing this makes me so mad at myself but onward: After 3 hours or so in the car, I go in and my husband is on his 2nd lapdance. Really? so why doesnt he have the balls to tell his friend to go eff off, that he cant go out to the strip club anymore, should I be satisfied with him lying and promising his dumb single friend "not this weekend maybe next weekend" on top of this question I must confess that on the way home from home depot tonight I just lost it and confessed to him the reason I cant stand the strip club anymore or people that frrequent them is that I NOW see why it messes up marriages- I explained to him: That when I sat in the car waiting on him, that night and he decided to extend his time in the strip club after me telling him not to take long (because before that I had always been a yes girl to the strip club thing and staying out all night together but only once a month) the fact that instead of opting out he lengthens his time in there with a VIP, and leaves me out in the car to sit, showed me that obviously I was LEAST important, and I explained to him: I know your innocent you didnt mean crap by doing it but this is how it feels for your husband to tell you to get rid of your peiercings, and your 1 tattoo, and your blue contacts, and by the way your better as a redhead than jet black hair... he goes and get a lap dance from a girl covered in tats, drawn on sharpie eyebrows, piercings, and jet black hair. who lines her lips from the outside in. WTF???? he just ignores me and then says "your ****ing crazy" Why was I crazy? I fully explained this is not some punishment this is me explaining why it hurts everytime he doesn't speak up and say the truth to his single friend. I dont know why his friend doesnt call him up before 950pm on a fri or saturday night . I don't know!!! Im sorry for my verbose writing and horrible punctuation, please give your thoughts ladies and gentlemen.
CarrieT Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 How is this thread different than the problem posted in this thread - where you've already had some responses and suggestions?
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