StillReigning Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 I love a girl with a feminine, classy and confident but still humble personality. This is kind of a rare thing - it's like a girl who is pretty but doesn't have any arrogance and doesn't expect people to fawn over her because of how she looks. That is so hot, although it's kind of hard to find. Intelligence is also important - stupid people are a no go. I think it's definitely under appreciated on this site just how much men like personality.
ThaWholigan Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 A degree of humility is desired in most people in general. An emotionally intelligent girl is a highly appreciated girl. I am probably a little bit different in that I desire girls who, while feminine in nature, are also a bit.....well, hard. I like a girl who is straight up, doesn't bullsh*t, fiery, and very passionate. Being that I come from an emotionally expressive family, I am able to respond to that a lot easier than subtle, passive-agressive ploys that a lot of girls employ. So I prefer that girls cut to the meat and potatoes rather than play with the gravy. Intelligent women are a 100% turn on. If I can sit down with her and have a conversation about philosophy or some BS like astrophysics, she's the one . Girls who are analytically inclined in the way that I am, and who like to break down social scenarios in a way that I understand also endear me greatly. A nurturing side cannot go amiss, but what I find with some of the more fiery girls out there is that they have a very soft side to them that is very warm and welcoming, usually. 2
Author StillReigning Posted August 26, 2012 Author Posted August 26, 2012 A degree of humility is desired in most people in general. An emotionally intelligent girl is a highly appreciated girl. I am probably a little bit different in that I desire girls who, while feminine in nature, are also a bit.....well, hard. I like a girl who is straight up, doesn't bullsh*t, fiery, and very passionate. Being that I come from an emotionally expressive family, I am able to respond to that a lot easier than subtle, passive-agressive ploys that a lot of girls employ. So I prefer that girls cut to the meat and potatoes rather than play with the gravy. Intelligent women are a 100% turn on. If I can sit down with her and have a conversation about philosophy or some BS like astrophysics, she's the one . Girls who are analytically inclined in the way that I am, and who like to break down social scenarios in a way that I understand also endear me greatly. A nurturing side cannot go amiss, but what I find with some of the more fiery girls out there is that they have a very soft side to them that is very warm and welcoming, usually. feminine and fiery is hot I agree. I met a girl like that a few weeks ago at a bar, so hot
somedude81 Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 Fun, dorky, laughs easily. Understanding, sweet, sexual, caring. Can keep me on my toes, but not all the time. Not arrogant, bitchy, stuck-up or a downer. 1
MercuryMorrison1 Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 (edited) Intelligence is a major turn on for me. If I can share an in depth conversation with a girl about philosopy or somthing to that degree, she score's major brownie points with me. I like a girl who is humble about life and not a modern age feminazi. Don't get me wrong, I'm all for equal rights for men and women, however those girls who take things waaayyy to far and treat men like dirt simply because we have a penis...Major turn off. I like a girl who knows how to have a good time ''without getting carried away''. Its attractive to me if a girl can cut loose and kinda in essence ''be one of the guys'' and just have a good time without worrying about being prim and proper. I'm torn between liking tomboys and feminine girls. I like certian qualitys from both personality types, for example...The primal man inside me likes feminine girls who somewhat need to be protected, however I also find it attractive when a girl proves that she can hold her own and do exciting and dangrous things like skydiving or something of that nature without crumbling into a teary eyed shaking mess. So I am at an impass with myself when it comes to those two traits. I like a girl who's open sexually and doesn't use sex a method of manipulation. Honestly I could list traits I do and don't like here all day...But I think you get the general idea. Edited August 26, 2012 by MercuryMorrison1
Thieves Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 (edited) Well, for me, I'm attracted to both men and women, so... For men, I'd have to say someone who is cerebral/intelligent. Someone who'll enjoy keeping up with me mentally, as I've met men before who were handsome, only to find that they're more into frat parties and bar-hopping more than having other hobbies. It was just... a turn off. A guy who's aware of current events and is into good causes for the world is awesome. I usually fall for the types who are very sensitive too, especially towards women. The ones who don't jump through hoops just to prove how manly they are. For women, I think I go coo-coo for the more assertive types who like the 'alternative' look (tattoos, piercings, etc.), who are very creative and self-aware. Edited August 26, 2012 by Thieves
SunandMoon Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 Fun, dorky, laughs easily. Understanding, sweet, sexual, caring. Can keep me on my toes, but not all the time. Not arrogant, bitchy, stuck-up or a downer. Oh, that! Though I may add outgoing as I'm not so much and I like the way it moves me somewhat out of my comfort zone.
GirlontheLam Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 1. brainy 2. sarcastic 3. charismatic A combo of these 3 for me is like a cat to catnip. I am a sucker for a smart charmer that gets my sense of humor. A creative side is hot too: music, art, poetry, makes stuff, good at cooking.....
Pompom Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 Dominant, bold, sensitive, funny, with the fiery Middle Eastern temperament. Easy to make him laugh, but also loves animals and is considerate and patient. I prefer a guy who's made genuine enemies rather than one surrouned with false friends, someone who stands his ground when challenged. Not looking for fights, but not walking away from those thrown at him. I especially love guys who have "early crowsfeet" and a glint in their eyes, something mischievous, but "cuddly".
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